alicia24 Posted February 1, 2005 Posted February 1, 2005 My brother hooked me up with this fantastic guy. We met at a friends house and stayed up until 6am chatting. That week we talked every night on the phone for hours. Following weekend we had a date and it was fab. We still chat on the phone all the time for hours and we have so much in common. Our last date was like a week and a half ago and he hasnt made any date plans for us. Is this normal? Should I ask him out, how long do I wait to see if he will ask me out again. thanks for the help
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted February 1, 2005 Posted February 1, 2005 I'm currently in that situation. I wait to see if he'll call me. Like if we hung out on Saturday........I wont call him. And if he does...then he's interested. Then i knew i was safe to ask him out again. If he calls you and you know he's interested, than guys love assertive women who take charge to make the plans and stuff... good luck and don't be afraid to think outside the box and ASK HIM OUT!lol
Author alicia24 Posted February 1, 2005 Author Posted February 1, 2005 I know he is interested. We talk alot. I'm just wondering why he is dragging his feet with going on another date. Men are so confusing.
very-confused-girl Posted February 1, 2005 Posted February 1, 2005 Dont make such a big issue of it and dont feel insecure that he lost interest. Maybe he is waiting for you to make the move. Try to wait a day of two and than try to initiate some plans and see whether he is interested. Why should he be the one who is going to make the move? I mean I am a bit oldfashioned and like to be conquered by guy, but some guys are a bit nervous and shy at the beginning and they are just afraid of being rejected, so they are waiting for the girl to break the ice I mean by asking him out, you cant destroy anything. If he is interested in you, then you made a good move. If he is not interested - at least you find it quite quickly and you know he is not worth wasting your time.
alphamale Posted February 1, 2005 Posted February 1, 2005 I like to call this the "NAME-THE-KIDS-BEFORE-THE-THIRD-DATE-SYNDROME" Chill out and stop putting the cart before the horse. If he's interested he'll call within the next few wks.
Author alicia24 Posted February 1, 2005 Author Posted February 1, 2005 thats the thing. He calls me everyday just about. But still hasnt planned another date with me. Its just weird. Maybe he doesnt like me, but them why would he call all the time?
very-confused-girl Posted February 1, 2005 Posted February 1, 2005 see but thats the point? HE calls you every day. Not you, but HIM! He is the one who initiates the contact. Stop sitting on your ass and initiate something! Ask him out!
Author alicia24 Posted February 1, 2005 Author Posted February 1, 2005 ok ok thanks for the advice. I guess I'm just kind of old school when it comes to that stuff.
UCFKevin Posted February 1, 2005 Posted February 1, 2005 Why not just call him and see if he wants to get together? Because it's not part of "the game"? Screw that, just do it, you want to see him, so do it. It ain't 1955 for crying out loud. Girls gotta do SOME work.
alphamale Posted February 1, 2005 Posted February 1, 2005 Originally posted by very-confused-girl see but thats the point? HE calls you every day. Not you, but HIM! He is the one who initiates the contact. Stop sitting on your ass and initiate something! Ask him out! sorry I missed that piece of him calling u every day. Yeah, listen to VERY-CONFUSED-GURL and tell the dope your both going for dinner on Sat nite and he is paying the bill!!!
UCFKevin Posted February 2, 2005 Posted February 2, 2005 Uhh....what? Why should he pay the bill? If anything, maybe half, but if she's asking him out, she should pay. Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh..........it's all becoming clear to me now.....THAT'S why women don't ask out guys.
Merin Posted February 2, 2005 Posted February 2, 2005 Originally posted by UCFKevin Uhh....what? Why should he pay the bill? If anything, maybe half, but if she's asking him out, she should pay. Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh..........it's all becoming clear to me now.....THAT'S why women don't ask out guys.
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