danny12 Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 Okay, in my relationship I really don't get jealous. I used to get jealous before dating my gf because I didn't want her to date anyone else, I didn't want her to have sex with someone else. And now that im dating her...I don't get jealous at all. I don't really feel threatened. Of course, all I am doing is thinking in my head of a situation and im not getting jealous. If it were real life idk if it would be different. but is it a good thing that I do not get jealous anymore?
d0nnivain Posted April 11, 2014 Posted April 11, 2014 Jealousy is bad. It's born of insecurity. Before you dated her you had no control over what she was doing & you were jealous. Now you are dating & you are more secure so you aren't jealous anymore. 1
Hello_is_it_me Posted April 11, 2014 Posted April 11, 2014 I think a little bit of jealousy here and there is normal and can be a healthy barometer in a relationship. It shows you care. I've noticed that when it comes to the point where I have no jealousy over anything, I kind of don't care much about the girl any more.
thecrucible Posted April 11, 2014 Posted April 11, 2014 I think low levels of jealousy are good because it shows you care/are into the person. With an ex bf, there was a time when I realised that I wouldn't care if he cheated on me, and that's when I realised that my feelings for him were gone.
Phantom888 Posted April 11, 2014 Posted April 11, 2014 Some jealousy is okay. Intense jealousy isn't healthy. I think to a certain extent we are all a little insecure. You don't have to feel threatened to feel jealousy. Sometimes it just makes you feel unhappy even though there is no threat at all.
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