Guitarisgood Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 We met at the local community centre doing some volunteer work. We were always flirtatious and teasing but nothing more. I was never interested until the other night. She saw me wearing my glasses for the first time so wanted to find out why I never wore them and I countered about how I only wear them on special occasions and we'd have to go on a date if she wanted me to keep them on. Throughout the night we got onto some playful banter. Here's the contradicting part; after finding we liked a special band I was flirting with her how someone had better marry her otherwise I would. She replied that we are going to be best friends due to our mutual interests and that we now had to definately go on a date. Later on she started to call me 'buddy' more. The night ended as usual, me walking her to her car before she gave me the biggest embrace then dropping her things and then asking me why I always make her clumsy like that etc. Girls if this was you, are you simply letting me down lightly while wanting to keep the attention going?
PegNosePete Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 So why didn't you ask her on a date? Sounds to me like she's waiting for you to ask her.
Author Guitarisgood Posted April 10, 2014 Author Posted April 10, 2014 but she's calling buddy and how we're going to be best of friends???
Thomas the Red Fox Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 That's called negging. I would do that to girls often before asking them out.
Chocolat Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 Go for it. The best Rs happen when you are both friends and lovers.
Author Guitarisgood Posted April 10, 2014 Author Posted April 10, 2014 Cheers guys, how do I recover from this? I won't be seeing her for a couple weeks due to commitments and I normally prefer asking girls out in person. Do you think a couple weeks away like this would change anything?
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