Emma1234 Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 Hey everyone, It has been 11 months since by break up and I can't even explain how fine you'll be soon. Hindsight really is incredible. I can't believe how bad I was! But at the same time I knew I couldn't control it. But I also know that I'm stronger (cliche I know ) because of it. It pushed me to make my life so much better and I know for a fact that his is working out better for him too, i'm genuinely happy for him. I know we were not making each other happy anymore and he just had the strength to end it. So don't worry at all, you'll look back at this sooner than you think and be proud of yourself for getting through and over it Obviously life isn't perfect, would be strange if it was, I have met someone else but i'm in a slight situation with him at the moment as I'm worried I'll be a rebound but if we're looking at it positively, i can't believe I've met someone else who is so much more compatible and so much better than my ex. How things change Just keep so busy, listen to all advice about things to do to occupy yourself, cry yourself to sleep every night, take positive risks and look ahead. You're going to be more than fine x 5
kgreatie Posted April 11, 2014 Posted April 11, 2014 I can't wait to be where you are. I'm 2 months post BU and today I cried over how much I miss my ex after not crying about it for about a week or so. It's still hard and I have also met someone else, although I'm in no place for a relationship so I know it will not go far nor last long. I'm still learning how to be happy by myself and learning more about myself every day. 1
sooshi Posted April 11, 2014 Posted April 11, 2014 I've also cried a few times tonight about things in relation to my ex-fiance. I hope to be where you are at some point. I hope to eventually meet someone that I feel a similar connection with that I felt for him, and a deep sense of love as I have felt. 1
iDrumKing Posted April 11, 2014 Posted April 11, 2014 I hope to eventually meet someone that I feel a similar connection with that I felt for him, and a deep sense of love as I have felt. No sooshi, you want someone you're gonna have BETTER connection with and a DEEPER sense of love. You'll find it 4
Jiivy Posted April 11, 2014 Posted April 11, 2014 I'm increadibly happy for you - to be where you are is really admirable. I wish you all the best luck with your new relationship and please for the love of God, don't forget what broke in your last one. 1
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