jordanr1994 Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 Long story short my girlfriend broke up with me just over a month ago. We both agreed we needed space and i couldnt be friends even though she wanted too. we were in no contact for 3 weeks exactly then she text me. Every 5 days after that she has text me asking how i am, When should i get my stuff back etc Ive either not replied or made small talk and just been friendly. Every time telling her i still arent ready to be friends. She said she understands but misses talking to me and that as soon as i feel ready to, then make contact with her. She is seeing someone new and is sleeping with him We were together for 2.5 years and madly in love, and both agree we will be together again one day. My question is, do i carry on going no contact because she has a new guy on the scene and i should just let that run its course, im pretty much over her and am ready to date again myself. Or do i reply when she texts me and maybe try to start building a bond again, because i do want her back Im thinking of leaving it a couple more months of no contact from myself and then maybe start replying or initiating some LC myself For those who are reading this NC does work, It heped me heal so fast, to the point i went a week without thinking of her or checking her social media profiles. She then text me at her peak of lonliness? and it knocked me back a few steps
mangetout Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 Definitely do NC. The day I decided to really move on my ex tells me he wants me back. She needs to start missing you
organizedchaos Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 Long story short my girlfriend broke up with me just over a month ago. We both agreed we needed space and i couldnt be friends even though she wanted too. we were in no contact for 3 weeks exactly then she text me. Every 5 days after that she has text me asking how i am, When should i get my stuff back etc Ive either not replied or made small talk and just been friendly. Every time telling her i still arent ready to be friends. She said she understands but misses talking to me and that as soon as i feel ready to, then make contact with her. She is seeing someone new and is sleeping with him We were together for 2.5 years and madly in love, and both agree we will be together again one day. My question is, do i carry on going no contact because she has a new guy on the scene and i should just let that run its course, im pretty much over her and am ready to date again myself. Or do i reply when she texts me and maybe try to start building a bond again, because i do want her back Im thinking of leaving it a couple more months of no contact from myself and then maybe start replying or initiating some LC myself For those who are reading this NC does work, It heped me heal so fast, to the point i went a week without thinking of her or checking her social media profiles. She then text me at her peak of lonliness? and it knocked me back a few steps After 2.5 years she's seeing someone after a month post bu? Why are you talking to her at all???
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