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I fell in love with this girl that I thought felt the same way until she just stopped. Even she says she stopped.

I've asked her on a few occasions what changed and she keeps saying she doesn't know... She cried over it and she hasn't been this upset over anything before (apparently). When we were together she remembered all the small details about me like my habits etc. It was really sweet. She was the first one to say that she was getting strong feelings for me. Of course, I felt the same I just didn't say it... I don't know why.. Scared she didn't feel the same.. Even after going to her house and kissing her for hours haha

On new year, she was drunk and she told me she loved me. I didn't know if I loved her at this point so I just changed the subject (this was through text) and she kept saying it. Then she started saying she needed me and she needed me there with her.

She has social anxiety because her mum passed away when she was 6. Even eye contact is a big thing for her and she always used to tell me that I was the first guy she was completely comfortable around that she really liked. She still stands by this to this day.

She texts when she has an excuse to. Twice in two months since the break up. They were both essentially the same. Talking about whatever the excuse was and then she keeps the convo going only to continue on to how sorry she is. I always say it's not your fault so don't worry, but the second time,I was crying when I typed it..

 

What do I do?

 

Because my mum believes in psychics and all that, she got me a reading from a love psychic or something and the psychic said that she misses me, but keeps changing her mind because she doesn't know what she wants. She also said that she just wasn't ready for what I was ready for?

 

Should I just let everything go as it's going now? We don't talk unless we're in the same place or she decides to drunk text me. I've told her I'm always there for her etc so should I just carry on with my life and wait for her or should I ask her if she wants me in my life and if not, I'll walk?

 

I'm so confused :/

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Tell her that you CANNOT be there for her until she figures it out. Your just making things more confusing for her and your just hurting yourself as well. You should go NC, it might be hard to do but its the best thing to do for the both of you.

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Ignore her texts so you can stay sane...

 

If I may, she misses the friend not the man... and she still has to do a little growing up; she is still a young girl, I take it?

 

And while I am not entirely materialistic, I'd ignore those psychic readings...

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