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Found my ex on OKC. Oh ****.


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Today has been kind of a minor setback. I was on OKC and, as the title indicates, I found my ex-girlfriend on there. She must've recently created a profile because I've been on the website for a little while. Finding her was unavoidable because her picture was right on the frontpage -- otherwise, I probably wouldn't have found her since I've set my parameters to "does not drink." I'm guilty for being curious about certain women looking like my ex-girlfriend. I clicked on her profile because it was a picture of her I've never seen, and it looked a lot like her. When I opened her profile, I was confirmed: it was my ex-girlfriend.

 

I wouldn't have ****ing DARED to look at her questions, but I browsed through her profile to see if there was a mention of me, and there wasn't. I'm not upset about finding her on the site, but she was my first love and I believe there's always going to be a part of me that is thinking...maybe...MAYBE. I know it's a short lived kind of thought but I just don't want to make a dumb mistake. I don't want to "accidentally message her" or "accidentally like her profile" or anything accidental. I want to avoid her at all costs, but I also don't want to get rid of my account because...quite frankly, I'm landing opportunity here and there.

 

What the heck should I do?

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Can you block her profile on OKC?

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Can you block her profile on OKC?

 

I can hide her profile. I don't think I can block her, though. I did hide her profile but I'm thinking that may not be enough.

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I can hide her profile. I don't think I can block her, though. I did hide her profile but I'm thinking that may not be enough.

 

I think hiding should be fine. You won't be able to see her therefore there won't be any accidents. I've hidden profiles before on Match and POF and it's never caused a problem.

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