amlove89 Posted April 9, 2014 Posted April 9, 2014 so, I went out with a friend of mine, and he brought his friends along with us one weekend. Out of the group I was drawn to one of the guy in particular. We danced all night, he told me he was attracted to me and walked me to my car. The only thing he did wrong- he didnt ask for my number(he was also casually dating another girl but insisted it wasnt serious). A few weeks go by and I had not seen him until a Saturday night out. But this time he brought his girl out. Since we were not friends, I didnt feel that it was necessary to go out of my way to say hi to him while he was entertaining his gf. So I said nothing to him all night, then at the end of the night he came over to where a friend & I were standing, complaining to the friend about how I did not speak to him all night. I then I asked him what his problem was & he responded with "you cant say hi to me?" & I replied saying "youre aloud to say hi to me too.." Then he said "Im saying hi now" then he just walked away back to his gf. I was a little shocked that it bothered him enough to say something about it. After that night I didnt see him for about 2 more weeks, until last sat night. He was alone this time. & we were all drinking, having fun. We were super flirty & he even shared his drink with me.. By the end of the night the Drake song "I got my eyes on you" came on & he literally grabbed me & started dancing with me. We danced until the music turned off. We then parted ways, and he told me "I love you".... and I said "Oh you do?" Then he said "It was nice seeing you" & I said "bye"... Im sure that could have been the alcohol talking, but no lie we have a great chemistry & we are both attracted to each other.
WrinkledForehead Posted April 9, 2014 Posted April 9, 2014 Something more important than his level of interest is how you feel about being second to another girl. Are you okay with dating someone who is seeing other people? Does his girlfriend know and is she okay with him seeing other people?
tekkenfan2 Posted April 9, 2014 Posted April 9, 2014 He likes you, he just seems awkward. (Saying he loves you is def very weird tbh, hopefully he was drunk? lol) But just make sure he isn't trying to bang you and leave you hanging. You may have to take some initiative on getting his number/getting your number to him tho And find out if her is still seeing that other girl, tell him you aren't getting involved with him if he is. Dont wanna be getting played
Author amlove89 Posted April 9, 2014 Author Posted April 9, 2014 Yea, he was pretty drunk when he said it, but he also told me that I was the homie". Prob just the alcohol talking. The thing is he and the other girl are together now & after he's been drinking, when shes not around he tends to be super friendly with me.. So although I am attracted to him, I think i'm gonna pass. Cus he's not about to play me like that. Also his friend likes me as well, so I think thats why he did not ask me for my number initially, before he & the girl got together.
Author amlove89 Posted April 9, 2014 Author Posted April 9, 2014 Something more important than his level of interest is how you feel about being second to another girl. Are you okay with dating someone who is seeing other people? Does his girlfriend know and is she okay with him seeing other people? Yea you're def right. & though they're together, he makes it obvious that he likes me. But I'm not down with being "second" to anyone.. especially him. So, yea.. but thanks!
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