WP4046 Posted April 9, 2014 Posted April 9, 2014 To me the only good response when you get a text like that is, "Sorry, who is this?", then radio silence. Only a complete fool would respond to "who is this"
robbysurfs Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 (edited) I wouldn't of even responded to the first message, enough was said. You had the chance to get lucky when you hung out at her place man. Next time pull the trigger bruh!!! Edited April 10, 2014 by robbysurfs
mikefromtheblock Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 I remember my first relationship. We were really tight at first, shared a lot, had a lot in common. But then, I got too attached to her. I got the attention and I fell for it. And to my surprise back then - she turned around 180 degrees (as someone else said above) and went to meet other dudes. Then the drama started, I kept texting her asking who has she been with, I would even stalk her on Facebook checking who's commenting on her wall. That was pathetic and panoramic. I remember saying that I love her and that she turned cold so quickly. Saying something like that is just like bouncing to the wall trying to get over it. It doesn't work and puts people off. I learned from that situation and moved on. And you should too.
TB Rhine Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 To me the only good response when you get a text like that is, "Sorry, who is this?", then radio silence. Better yet, be like "Becky?" Or something to that effect. (I'm assuming Becky is not the girl's actual name). Then follow up with, "Don't be jealous about that other girl, I told you I'm just hanging out with her 'cause I heard she puts out. You know you're my one and only!" Sounds like you did alright -- trying to take things further is definitely the right move when you're at one or the other person's place, alone, and most especially if you're in any kind of reclined position (I mean, come on -- mixed signals much?) There's nothing you can do if she ultimately chickens out and puts the breaks on.
Under The Radar Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 Wow reading this over again I realize I look like a total idiot. Thanks for opening my eyes. Just deleted her number. There is absolutely nothing wrong with the first text, IMO. In fact, that is the way I would have handled it. It shows you are polite, considerate, and can handle rejection. Those traits are considered attractive by the vast majority of people both in and out of the dating world. Regarding the second text ...... you'll know in the future not to do it again ...... lesson learned.
jay1983 Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 I don't think need to anything, everybody's already told you.
RonaldS Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 I'm normally all about building the girl network and being friends with former romantic interests, but not the way you did it. Next time a girl sends a text like that, just respond with, 'OK, cool'....and leave it at that. If she wants to hang out, grab a drink, whatever, you still have her in the index, and she can contact you. But don't put any work into it yourself. 1
TB Rhine Posted April 11, 2014 Posted April 11, 2014 Also, be busy when she starts calling you for rides and whatnot, and make damn sure she doesn't pull that "oops, I forgot to mention I'm totally broke" nonsense if the the two of you go out anywhere.
WP4046 Posted April 11, 2014 Posted April 11, 2014 I learned that texting something sexual will get a instant response. Now this girl has not text me all week and took a day to respond to my last text. So now she is going to get a sexual text and I bet she responds tonight
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