I paid the bail.

[sooshi]

Your compassion is amazing.

[Els]

I'm not sure what your story is. But I think that if she is no danger to you or your son being out on bail, you did the right thing. It's just being a decent human being, which IMO is unfortunately underrated nowadays. I would have done the same for anyone (again, barring them endangering me).

[bluegreen]

You didn't do the right nor wrong thing.

 

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Now Haydn,I've been here with you from day one, I know the back history.

 

Did you do the right thing... I have a two part answer in that question.

 

For the child sake, for her well being yes Absolutely....10 fold you did.

 

As for her, no you didn't.

 

She didn't learn a lesson, she once again relied on you to pick her up when she fell.

 

Sometimes people need to completely bottom out before they learn.

 

Maybe this was her time, she is either going to do it again, or straighten the F up.

 

That's not for you to decide, dictate ect.

 

Moving forward, only thing you do is make damned sure she shows up for court so you can get your bail money back.

 

If she runs, your **** outta luck.

 

Then I'll be mad at you lol

 

But honestly, there's no harm no foul done here, I've made my good and bad points on the issue, but keep moving forward.

 

Let her know that was her one get out of jail free card, and it won't ever happen again.

 

Best of luck as always

 

 

 

Barky

 

 

Agree 100 %

[Haydn]

Thank you all for the replies.

 

Just to clear a few things up. My ex has no hold on me. My feelings died for her along time ago. I moved on.

 

Her son was very close to me. He goes to the same school as my daughter.

 

She is rick bottom and is forced to seek treatment.

 

And no i have not had to see her once through all this and have a good net work around me.

 

Can we close this thread no please,

 

Haydn

[Haydn]

I am a happy guy natuarally and that will continue.

 

 

Thank you all for the replies.

 

Just to clear a few things up. My ex has no hold on me. My feelings died for her along time ago. I moved on.

 

Her son was very close to me. He goes to the same school as my daughter.

 

She is rick bottom and is forced to seek treatment.

 

And no i have not had to see her once through all this and have a good net work around me.

 

Can we close this thread no please,

 

Haydn