Do you think how attractive we are or who we attract effects who were attracted to?

[xxoo]

To some effect. When I receive attention from average women, It doesn't phase me or make me feel attractive or attracted to them. But when attractive gay men, and attractive women pay attention to me, yes. I feel like a hot pie.

 

If you get attention from very attractive people, then that is what makes you feel good. Attention from average looking people may fall short.

 

If you only get attention from average people, then that is what makes you feel good.

 

The people who make us feel good are attractive.

[dichotomy]

This is interesting. So how come very curvy isn't your type if that's what you are attracted to?

 

My physical type has changed over the years in that it has become less important as I dated very different looking men.

 

I think when you are young you may romanticize or envision a certain type of girl/guy you are going to find life long love with. Its not really sexual exactly - a mental picture maybe?

 

As with you my type did change, from a certain "archetype" based on my first loving relationship. That woman had certain characteristics physical (curvy) and personality wise (and culture) that kind of shifted me romantically. She imprinted on me as lovers do sometimes. So curvey girls (with a certain personality) get a reaction from me and in some ways - they also seem to like me as well.

 

 

Not to say I don't still carry that old other archetype somewhere...