Mommame2 Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 Divorced dad. Says that he beat up a 19 year old boy who was after his daughter... And also that he punched a guy who was having an affair with his wife ... And checked himself into hospital during divorce because he was suicidal. Obviously there is a lot great about him.., but those things stuck out to me. They were years ago.. No record.
Gaeta Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 NO Where do you find these retards? Or is this the same guy? 5
Author Mommame2 Posted April 8, 2014 Author Posted April 8, 2014 Nope. Not same guy. Just messaged online (email). I'm def thing OLD is full of rats!
MidwestUSA Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 "Obviously there is a lot great about him" Such as? 2
PegNosePete Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 He told you these things before even meeting? Wow he couldn't just talk about his favourite movie or something? Well he has done you a favour by revealing this information so you can avoid him early on. 2
TheNewMe2014 Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 Don't do it. Ya gotta realize OLD is full of people not worth your time. Think about it, very normal good people go there..some. But ALL folks with issues looking for a last ditch chance at finding a relationship end up there too. That many warning signs? Why risk it? He can't be the one you've waited all your life for (otherwise you wouldn't be asking these questions). Going on even one date is a risk I don't think worth taking. 1
Elias33 Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 Hey, if you like a challenge go for it. But is it a risk you are willing to take? Is this something you want to add to your life? Probably not.
d0nnivain Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 He's bragging that he solves problems with violence. No I wouldn't date him. He has no sense. If he got mad at me would he beat me up too? 7
Gaeta Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 And you are not suppose to waste your time with rats. This man just told you he solves his problems with his fists. What is more disturbing is that he is bragging about it. That is SO freakin trash! I have a friend that did punch the man that was sleeping with his wife. He is not bragging about it. It's something very personal he will share only when he has established a relation of trust with the person. 1
GoreSP Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 NO Where do you find these retards? Or is this the same guy? This! OP, seriously you need to review your selection 'procedure'...
RonaldS Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 That depends. Can you take a punch? If you can, then go for it. 3
Author Mommame2 Posted April 8, 2014 Author Posted April 8, 2014 Yeah...I just thought WOW! Okay then... Yes, he is a good dad, it appears. He seems very successful (owns his own business) etc. But last night he accidentally texted me ( instead of intended target) stuff about how he makes love slowly.... I responded back "think you got the wrong person!" He tried to say he was joking. But I haven't texted him back. "Obviously there is a lot great about him" Such as?
uglygirl9 Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 It sounds like he is suffering from some sort of personality disorder. Mostly they will never really cure from it, but if he's in therapy, who knows
dragon_fly_7 Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 Divorced dad. Says that he beat up a 19 year old boy who was after his daughter... And also that he punched a guy who was having an affair with his wife ... And checked himself into hospital during divorce because he was suicidal. Obviously there is a lot great about him.., but those things stuck out to me. They were years ago.. No record.Hells nope. I don't want to then be held responsible for a murder he commited because he mistakenly thought a greeting kiss with a male cousin meant I was flirting and considering cheating. I sure don't want a suicidal, borderline man either. That sounds like a male borderline personality disorder case.
Gaeta Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 Move to next RIGHT NOW....No need to keep on talking to him, no need meet him, this is where you discard these crackpots...got it? You are having a hard time with online because you send too much time on these weirdos. 2
dragon_fly_7 Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 OP, you seem to be attracted to messed up men with heavy issues/serious history. Why are you even considering a man like that??? 2
Lernaean_Hydra Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 I'd date him. I'm sorry but these aren't exactly instances of him beating up a barista for getting his order wrong. This wasn't road rage or something, they're two examples of times where frankly, his reaction wasn't what I'd consider unreasonable or extreme. Old fashioned? Yes. Dangerous? No, I don't think so. And when I say "old fashioned" I mean in that his seems to have ideas about "defending the honor" of the women in his life and dong so by fisticuffs with the men he perceives to have "dishonored" them. But don't listen to me, maybe I'm still just too young to see a problem with this .
MidwestUSA Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 Yeah...I just thought WOW! Okay then... Yes, he is a good dad, it appears. He seems very successful (owns his own business) etc. But last night he accidentally texted me ( instead of intended target) stuff about how he makes love slowly.... I responded back "think you got the wrong person!" He tried to say he was joking. But I haven't texted him back. And I wouldn't. Let it end there. For all you know he was texting some other OLD contact he hasn't even met yet. I agree, your picker is off, or your filter is way too loose. Are you rushing things? 1
Author Mommame2 Posted April 8, 2014 Author Posted April 8, 2014 Yeah I need hit the next button. Sad! He looked promising ... Until that. 1
Author Mommame2 Posted April 8, 2014 Author Posted April 8, 2014 Yes I believe I may be rushing things... Wanting to believe the right guy is out there. I'm scared... Considering the pool of people I have been in contact with. And I wouldn't. Let it end there. For all you know he was texting some other OLD contact he hasn't even met yet. I agree, your picker is off, or your filter is way too loose. Are you rushing things?
Emilia Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 Dunno. I felt pretty suicidal at times when my divorce was going through and most men would punch a guy that screwed their wife. Not sure about the daughter's boyfriend, depends on what he did. 1
amaysngrace Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 I would not date a guy that brags about beating people up or mentions being suicidal to a complete stranger. He sounds like he lives in the past. 5
Author Mommame2 Posted April 8, 2014 Author Posted April 8, 2014 Maybe so. When he told me about beating up the kids... I got concerned. He said their parents thanked them? That he went to the police? My dad was a cop. And while he was protective that kind if thing never happened in my house!
amaysngrace Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 Of course that's all that matters to many women. If you took away his "successfulness" nobody would think twice about dating him. That's right baby....you don't kiss the car!
Hello_is_it_me Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 Yeah...I just thought WOW! Okay then... Yes, he is a good dad, it appears. He seems very successful (owns his own business) etc. But last night he accidentally texted me ( instead of intended target) stuff about how he makes love slowly.... I responded back "think you got the wrong person!" He tried to say he was joking. But I haven't texted him back. There are many financially successful people that are BAD people. This guy seems to have some screws loose and I wouldn't contact him further. 2
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