AtTheStart Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 (edited) I'd been looking for answers for the past month and seriously, I think for anyone the writing was on the wall. It's just hard for me/you to see at the time as honestly, was it YOU in the relationship or a version of you lost in self-identity with the relationship? I know everyone's situation is different but aren't we all here with the same exact thing? The answers you seek lie within you. Each day brings a little more clarity and 3 weeks in...I'm indifferent, educated, and honestly 95% over the breakup. I say that because while I think about her...it's just objectively now. If she left you...she wasn't the one for you. Even if you can't give thought up yet, in any case...you need to become a person your true love could never leave, her or someone you've yet to meet. To help get you there I have a suggestion. If you want honest, empowering, LIBERATING answers...I HIGHLY suggest you check out Life Coach Corey Wayne to get you started thinking. He has over 1400 videos on youtube that have brought me freedom, perspective, acknowledgement of relationships. Edited April 8, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator removed URL to commercial sites, and promotional material 1
Never Again Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 Life Coach Corey Wayne And another pitch for one of these "gurus". Fun fact: They all say the same thing because they all work together, and most of what they say is complete and utter bunk. If you find the answers liberating, it's because they're coming from somewhere else and take responsibility off your shoulders. The whole "if she left you...she wasn't the one for you"? Sometimes the case, sometimes not. Normally, when relationships dissolve, it's because BOTH sides are to blame. Corey Wayne preaches the same "interest level" manure that comes from Doc Love, who works pretty well in hand with that chump David DeAngelo. They promote each others materials, just like all the "ex back gurus" promote each other. The fact that they reference the same shoddy infrastructure alone shows their worth. The only point in being is to be the most authentic version of yourself, and not trying to be a "3% Man" or whatever these loser "life coaches" want to throw at you. They thrive off the wounded and insecure, nothing more.
Author AtTheStart Posted April 8, 2014 Author Posted April 8, 2014 Right, like people aren't seeking answers/advice from people on here as well. Seriously, I could care freaking less whether or not someone goes and watches any of his stuff. Just it helped me to objectively look a breakup situation. I totally realize I ended up sounding like a commercial. Just uhhh, I don't see the point in wallowing in misery and spite which respectfully is kinda thematic in a lot of "guidance" on loveshack. I understand people are bitter...but all I was saying is there is stuff I observed in this guy's videos...that made me realize how to move on...and that a breakup can seriously get you to work on yourself...for whoever you're meant to be with. But by all means...resume the "should I go NC vs LC" "why why why?!" "No she's not trying to figure out what she wants, she's cruel & an idiot for breaking up with you" bitter frantic hyperbole. The thing is though....I didn't have to pay a cent for anything this guy offered... He does say that if you feel his information adds value to your life...then make a donation.
Author AtTheStart Posted April 8, 2014 Author Posted April 8, 2014 Also, this guy doesn't even promote getting an ex back. Everything Ive ever watched suggests "walking away and NEVER looking back"
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