BrainRightHeartWrong Posted February 1, 2005 Posted February 1, 2005 Why is it that women dump me / fall out of love or WHATEVER but never me with them? i mean this in a relationship and not a 3 week dating game! i've never dumped a LTR girlfriend and if there were problems i've always wanted to work on them!
imokurnot Posted February 1, 2005 Posted February 1, 2005 Married a girl and were together 5 years and had a baby in the 3rd year. I am crushed but finally get myself on track once again and she comes back saying she made a mistake and loved me. Started slowly and finally married he again after 1 1/2 yrs. After 2 yrs of marriage she leaves me again. Then I come back much faster than the first divorce and finally meet someone I really like. 7 years later and two months previous to this post, she leaves me. I was the heart-breaker earlier in my career, or life whatever. But never did I leave someone after more than 6 months or so. I had one other girlfriend that lasted 2 years before my marriage and she left as well. I am all about working on things and I think you are as well. People these days have no sense of commitment. My last gf left me for another guy and this after 7 yrs and me now at the ripe old age of 39. Sheesh am I screwed now or what? LOL She was 31 and left me for a 28 yr old guy. Age isn't it though as I look 30 and my body is 20 times better than this bozo. All I know is I even had the talk about people and working things out because of my divorces. "Oh yeah", she tells me, "I believe the same thing. People are too fickle in relationships now days." 7 years later and I am @ the LS.org. Somewhere I had never imagined I would be. My friend told me tonight, "Oh my God, What happened? You were my hero!" Drew ******** whooped on a girl, I never thought i'd see the day!". I am so pissed at the whole thing and when I came to the conclusion you stated earlier this week I was mad. I never have broke off a LTR in my life. It kind of worried me to come to that conclusion. Like maybe I need to be quicker at moving on at the first sign of incompatibility or any issues the woman may display. That way I won't be burned. But what if I start to look at little things and decide to move on and this was actually the one that would have been with me for a long time and it would have worked out? LOL It is a basic conundrum to say the least, I tell ya!
7on Posted February 1, 2005 Posted February 1, 2005 What I don't get is I've never ever been in a relationship, yet all the girls I've met have mentioned something about me being attractive. I'm starting to think it's for pity because I have a hard time finding a date. Not to mention I have loads of friends - they just don't like me in "that way." And yeah, I still "like" my crushes/hangout girls/makeout buddies to the point if anyone of them wanted to be more than friends I'd do it in a heartbeat even if they did hurt me.
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