maestrok Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 So we broke up about 2 weeks ago. And then today we talked again. Wasn't planned. So it was more like light convo flowing into a serious talk. Think we ended the convo how we missed each other and decided to try once again. But I don't feel right. As I mull over why we broke up in the first place and "honest" things he said today during our long convo, I don't think he actually wants me back but just is bored and need someone to entertain him. So how do/should I break up again? I am worried that I'd look very fickle... but I can't do this when it so clearly is not the right thing...
Sunshinegurl88 Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 Being worried about looking fickle is a really bad reason to be/stay with someone though.. You already broke up once for a reason, and if you already have those doubts again, why drag it out? It is ultimately easier for the other person if you just end things quickly and clearly IMO.
Author maestrok Posted April 8, 2014 Author Posted April 8, 2014 Being worried about looking fickle is a really bad reason to be/stay with someone though.. You already broke up once for a reason, and if you already have those doubts again, why drag it out? It is ultimately easier for the other person if you just end things quickly and clearly IMO. I mean I'm sure he's NOT going to get hurt even if I break up with him, sadly ... he made it quite clear that right now, although he wants/likes to see me, he doesn't want to be in a serious relationship. So this whole thing is getting really stressful for me. And everything just feels wrong. Do you think I'm not trying?
deathandtaxes Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 You know you shouldn't be with him. That it was a mistake. Good. Now why are you worried so much about doing the right things? Sometimes in life doing the right thing sucks in the moment but dang does it feel good later on.
Author maestrok Posted April 8, 2014 Author Posted April 8, 2014 You know you shouldn't be with him. That it was a mistake. Good. Now why are you worried so much about doing the right things? Sometimes in life doing the right thing sucks in the moment but dang does it feel good later on. I am worried because I feel like then I am contradicting everything I said during out conversation today. I have always been a (wo)man of my words so I feel really awful saying one thing and turn around and act completely the opposite the next second.
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