A guy I used to see disappeared 2 months into the relationship now want to be friends

[girlywoman25]

I was seeing this guy for 2 months and things were going good he was very sweet and said he was into me. At one point I asked him to be my boyfriend since I didn't want to assume we were dating and he agreed but what happened next is still a mystery to me. In early Dec 2013 he just disappeared without any warning. I tried to get in contact with him but he never returned my texts and calls and I later on found out he found a new girlfriend, I was so hurt and confused so I moved on.

 

I also found out from a friend that told her he never really liked me and that we were friends and he also said something about me that wasn't true. Recently I saw him at my job at the supermarket and I tried to avoid him and didn't want to talk to him but he followed me so we talked it was so awkward and I didn't want to be rude. He said he wants us to hang out sometimes and said he was sorry about everything and gave a lame excuse as to why he didn't tell me that he had a girlfriend. I was very angry so I told him he needed to go. He had the nerve to ask me stupid questions like if I was angry at him and if I still had his number which I don't but he still has mines. I don't want to be his friend not after what he did and I don't trust him.

[nescafe1982]

What's not to get? He pulled the disappearing act because he's immature and doesn't hold himself accountable for his interactions with women.

 

I think if a guy who pulled this on me reappeared wanting to be "buddies" afterward, I'd tell him to take a long walk off a short pier.

 

But what you do with his request is up to you, of course.

[HappyLove]

Heck no, keep your self respect and have no contact with him. He lied to you, threw you away like a snotty tissue, then lied about you to your friends. Nothing to figure out here.