justash-x Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 It's been almost 8 months, we were together a year and a half. I still find myself thinking about him everyday and missing him everyday. When does this stop? It's driving me crazy! The worst part is I know he's not sat there thinking about me or missing me....
oracle Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 There are 2 parts to my answer: 1) Probably never. just less and less over time and with less impact. 2) Probably doesn't really let go of its hold till you meet someone you like more, and build bonds to the same or greater levels. 1
Trovador Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 I occasionally think of the ex who brought me to LS, then again I think about all the ladies in my life, even my puppy love... So, maybe you never stop... but I decided long ago that those thoughts were so unavoidable as irrelevant to my life, just like rain really...
bluegreen Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 You will always remember them as person sorry to be so blunt. After year or so you will start feeling indifferent toward them as person.
sooshi Posted April 8, 2014 Posted April 8, 2014 oracle's answer really resonates with me. But truthfully, I think we have differences in how we end up thinking about people. I still think about people from my childhood, who I haven't seen as a kid. I still miss some of them. I miss people who have died years ago, even if I didn't know them very well. I still felt a connection with them. I'm a very sentimental person though. For some people, they won't think much of people from years past. For others, such as myself, they're still very much a part of your present being, but not usually in a way that limits you from being the best you that you can be. 1
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