corixo Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 Hes all wrong for me. Ive known him for 3 years. I was never attracted to him in that way. But I always felt warm and fuzzy towards him. He was my exs bestfriend, the 3 of us lived together for 6 months or so. I know him all too well. Ive witnessed his bad behavior the whole time. The way he treated girls, he just didnt care. He always been nice to me though. Hes always been protective over me. I have always felt safe. We had a brother/sister type of bond. Well we continued being friends when my ex and I broke up.. he and my ex grew apart. Theyre in the same circle of friends though.. for the last 5 months or so we've hungout quite a bit. Id always end up in his bed.. We've never done anything. Untill last weekend. We hooked up... didnt talk to eachother for a week then yesterday we ended up together. We went to a few different sports bars had some drinks. I held his hand on top of the table and said "I dont want to lose you.".. me and him will never work! ! Every one of his friends would hate him because I dated his bestfriend for two years.. who hates the fact that him and I remained friends.. I told him that he means a lot to me and sex ruins everything. I told him don't try to have sex tonight. Or ever again. .. we got bsck to his place put a movie on. Cuddled, couldn't help but kiss each other.. he didn't try.. so he respected me to do that. He told me yesterday he had feelings for me too but we could never be anything.. this morning he brought me in a brownie and drink of water before he left for work. Kissed me on the forehead and left. Im crazy about him. I have no idea why, where or how this happened. I dont want to have feelings for him.. I want them to go away .. what would you do?
Emilia Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 He told me yesterday he had feelings for me too but we could never be anything.. this morning he brought me in a brownie and drink of water before he left for work. Kissed me on the forehead and left. Im crazy about him. I have no idea why, where or how this happened. I dont want to have feelings for him.. I want them to go away .. what would you do? Cut him loose and never speak to him. Your friendship won't survive anyway. It's best to move on with a clean slate rather than get caught up in this dysfunctional crap. You won't get the relationship you want and you don't have him anyway.
Mrin Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 Light his apartment on fire before you leave. That should end it. In all seriousness, how do you really know he's not right for you? Love is often times inconvenient and illogical.
Author corixo Posted April 7, 2014 Author Posted April 7, 2014 Light his apartment on fire before you leave. That should end it. In all seriousness, how do you really know he's not right for you? Love is often times inconvenient and illogical. Cause hes a player. He always has been. He drinks too much. I dont know if I can trust him with my feelings. I dont want to be just another girl to him. I want to keep him in my life.. and if we started having sex regularly.. it could mean absolutely nothijg to him and everything to me. I will be the one that gets hurt in the end.
ExpatInItaly Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 Hes all wrong for me. Ive known him for 3 years. I was never attracted to him in that way. But I always felt warm and fuzzy towards him. He was my exs bestfriend, the 3 of us lived together for 6 months or so. I know him all too well. Ive witnessed his bad behavior the whole time. The way he treated girls, he just didnt care. He always been nice to me though. Hes always been protective over me. I have always felt safe. We had a brother/sister type of bond. Well we continued being friends when my ex and I broke up.. he and my ex grew apart. Theyre in the same circle of friends though.. for the last 5 months or so we've hungout quite a bit. Id always end up in his bed.. We've never done anything. Untill last weekend. We hooked up... didnt talk to eachother for a week then yesterday we ended up together. We went to a few different sports bars had some drinks. I held his hand on top of the table and said "I dont want to lose you.".. me and him will never work! ! Every one of his friends would hate him because I dated his bestfriend for two years.. who hates the fact that him and I remained friends.. I told him that he means a lot to me and sex ruins everything. I told him don't try to have sex tonight. Or ever again. .. we got bsck to his place put a movie on. Cuddled, couldn't help but kiss each other.. he didn't try.. so he respected me to do that. He told me yesterday he had feelings for me too but we could never be anything.. this morning he brought me in a brownie and drink of water before he left for work. Kissed me on the forehead and left. Im crazy about him. I have no idea why, where or how this happened. I dont want to have feelings for him.. I want them to go away .. what would you do? Stop hanging out with him. Don't contact each other, and meet other guys.
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