volley Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 My ex boyfriend and I got together just to have dinner a chill. We talked a lot. I asked him why did we really break up and he said he didnt see it long term but yet we were together for 6yrs. He says I still love and care about u because we been through a lot. But we will never ever be back together once I made up my mind thats it. I told him well I believe deep down you made a mistake and I believe we can work this out. Hes so stubborn. Then when we got to his place he went to the bedroom lit a candle. I asked if he was tired and he said yes. I said well ok. Can I come and lay and talk to you. So we talked and then it got heated. We startd making out etc. I pushed him away and said we cant do this. Then he goes we either can be friends or friends with benifits. Im like what is this the new thing? Really, you want this instead of a relationship. Wow you have no heart. You still think im good looking and we talk like best friends but why not give it a shot. Your dating seen sucks and mine. Whats wrong with it. I was pissed but yet they it got steamy and things lead to .. left when he fell asleep. I was excited and happy but then so not. Because I want a second chance and he knows it. But yet he wants to do this. In his eye he sees that it wont work in mine it will better than it did.Is FWBs like the new thing, Were men that have commitment issue go? Why are men so stubborn but yet they always run back? Im so confused like he doesnt want to get back together ever but yet he wants this? Then why not give it a try?
No Limit Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 He was testing the waters. Remarkably you were one of the few who denied him, most usually agree and let themselves be used this way. Cheers!
David87 Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 He wants to fool around with you without the commitment part. All ‘Friends with Benefits’ relationships have an expiration date. Best thing to do is to move on and find a full time partner.
Arieswoman Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 IMO FWB sucks. Don't go there. This guy is priceless. He breaks up with you, then wants to have sex with you. He's taking no responsibility for your feelings. He will gets all the advantages of a relationship with you without having to work at it or invest anything. He'll break your heart - if he hasn't done so already. He says I still love and care about u because we been through a lot. But we will never ever be back together once I made up my mind thats it. ^^^^^^^^^^^^ He is giving you mixed messages here to keep you 'on side' - don't fall for it. If he really loved you and cared about you, then he wouldn't be breaking up with you. Here's a good book you might like to read;- "It's called a 'Break-up' because it's broken" by Greg Behrendt. You deserve better than some guy who is just using you as an outlet (or an inlet) for his sexual needs. Please move on and ditch this user.
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