Dinozzo925 Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 Ok, so let me make a long story short. I had a fiancee, she cheated on me with my best friend (one night stand), I found out two months later. Originally I wanted to stay because my fiancee was seemed so distraught (I watched her bash her head against my bathroom wall when I cried in bed, she also wrote a public apology note in front of both our dorms), I but I met someone and started a new relationship with them just as I was leaving her. She walked in on me with the new girl, got herself a new boyfriend. We settled into a pattern where she would get jealous after seeing me and the new girl at the party, we would have a string of conversations, maybe hook up…usually not. Eventually I always got tired and broke off the conversation. This has been going on for seven months. Of course, again, she saw me dancing with the new girl. She got mad, came up to me and said "Can I get a dance with you or would that make your little date mad?" I didn't say anything and walked away, but I did bump into her boyfriend and said "go take care of your girlfriend". He then followed me to the porch and said "she's all yours". She texted me as I was leaving the party, I called her the next day and found out she left him, partly because she was beginning to be interested in someone else. This has really landed me on my ass all day. It's bad timing…Ive been considering breaking up with my current girlfriend and looking for someone who is more similar to me. I'm obviously still carrying around heavy baggage for my ex, and that makes me think that maybe calling things off was a bad idea. I don't know why though, she is the epitome of everything I despise. She cheated on me, and it sounds like she ****ed this poor guy over too. Literally, she has all the mental capacity and character of a girl I would take home from a bar, have a fling with, and leave cab fair on the table in the morning. She's hot, but not more than the other girls I date. I really can't stick on what makes her "the one" anymore than anyone else. To make matters worse I think she might just be ****ing with me. She seems genuinely jealous of the new girl, but she also does not seem to want to get back together with me. I don't know, I'm confused. I either need to wind things back under control with her and get her back home or cut her off from my life completely. Problem is I don't know how to do either.
Chi townD Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 I feel sorry for the people you two are dating. You're both using them. You're not ready to date. You never dealt with what she did to you with your best friend and you never healed from it. Considering you never healed, you're using this poor girl and she never did anything to you. Now, how is that fair to her? Plus, the way you write about her tells me you're not that into her. So, cut her loose so she can go find the person she's meant to be with. She deserves at least that much before she gets anymore emotional invested into you.
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