starla33 Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 met a guy at a friends party yesterday and we hung out pretty much all night. He spent most of the night telling me how great I am and how he wants to get to know me better. I said he can take me on a date and he said he was looking very forward to it and we also kissed. I texted him the usual great to meet you looking forward to seeing you again. All I got back was nice to meet you too. SERIOUSLY? The guy was totally sober not drinking. I don't get what the hell happened in 10 hours that made him forget he was taking me on a date.
Mrin Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 My guess? He met someone else or was already seeing someone else.
David87 Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 He's dating multiple girls at the same time. That's my guess. 2
Author starla33 Posted April 7, 2014 Author Posted April 7, 2014 My guess? He met someone else or was already seeing someone else. we were hanging out till 4am.....sooo pretty sure in that day that didn't happen haha.
Author starla33 Posted April 7, 2014 Author Posted April 7, 2014 He's dating multiple girls at the same time. That's my guess. so? there are a few guy i'm talking to, but none that seem bf material. Does not mean I would within 10 hours of telling someone we are going out totally blow that off.
MrNate 2.0 Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 I'm kind of confused...all he said was 'nice to meet you too.' What's so bad about this again? 2
David87 Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 so? there are a few guy i'm talking to, but none that seem bf material. Does not mean I would within 10 hours of telling someone we are going out totally blow that off. He was a jerk obviously. Maybe he wanted a one night stand and nothing more. It's not your fault, lots of weird people 'lurk' around these days..
Author starla33 Posted April 7, 2014 Author Posted April 7, 2014 He was a jerk obviously. Maybe he wanted a one night stand and nothing more. It's not your fault, lots of weird people 'lurk' around these days.. I'm really annoyed I spent all night on this guy. He seemed really promising
Author starla33 Posted April 7, 2014 Author Posted April 7, 2014 I'm kind of confused...all he said was 'nice to meet you too.' What's so bad about this again? That's the polite way of ignoring the fact I said I was looking forward to seeing him again.
ExpatInItaly Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 I'm really annoyed I spent all night on this guy. He seemed really promising At the risk of sounding blunt...you've known the guy for mere hours. Don't base someone's potential on such little information. You don't know him from Fred. 4
Valen Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 I'm kind of confused...all he said was 'nice to meet you too.' What's so bad about this again? I was thinking the same. Seems like a normal response. I guess women can interpret things differently.
David87 Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 I was thinking the same. Seems like a normal response. I guess women can interpret things differently. She wanted more than "nice to meet you too " in that text. That's why she's disappointed. 1
Author starla33 Posted April 7, 2014 Author Posted April 7, 2014 I was thinking the same. Seems like a normal response. I guess women can interpret things differently. Will it's not exactly an I'm interested in going out with you response
DKT3 Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 That's the polite way of ignoring the fact I said I was looking forward to seeing him again. Calm down, give it until a few days. Let me ask you this, say you met this guy and another guy that day. The other guy texted you a couple times talking about how much he wanted to take you out. Then you have the guy who doesn't seem all that interested. Which would you be thinking about? Aloof works, seeming to not be all that interested has you all worked up. I guessing you've thought about it and him most of the day. So when he contacts you Monday or Tuesday you will be over the moon. I'm not or ever have I been a "player" conscience issues, but I know how. Watch this guy and be careful. Either he isn't into you, or he'll have you hooked so tight in a few weeks you won't be able to think. 1
GemmaUK Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 From how you worded the date suggestion it sounds like he is waiting for you to ask him perhaps?
MrNate 2.0 Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 That's the polite way of ignoring the fact I said I was looking forward to seeing him again. You're flipping out over five words. Just relax.
Valen Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 She wanted more than "nice to meet you too " in that text. That's why she's disappointed. Does she want him to write an essay?
David87 Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 Does she want him to write an essay? It happened to me that's why I said that. Women need more attention than that, trust me.
quidproquo89 Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 At the risk of sounding blunt...you've known the guy for mere hours. Don't base someone's potential on such little information. You don't know him from Fred. woah, woah woah, lets not bad mouth Fred here. Sorry felt like lightening the tone . As others have said, you need to get to know someone over a much longer period before getting too attached to them, because this happens all the time. 1
MidwestUSA Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 You left him at four in the morning and texted him ten hours later. Maybe he needs time to think, to sleep, eat, shower, whatever. You caught him off guard and wanted him to have date planned? Give the poor guy time to think. He answered you, and politely at that. Chill. 2
mikefromtheblock Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 met a guy at a friends party yesterday and we hung out pretty much all night. He spent most of the night telling me how great I am and how he wants to get to know me better. I said he can take me on a date and he said he was looking very forward to it and we also kissed. I texted him the usual great to meet you looking forward to seeing you again. All I got back was nice to meet you too. SERIOUSLY? The guy was totally sober not drinking. I don't get what the hell happened in 10 hours that made him forget he was taking me on a date. Perhaps, he's better off talking than texting?
Antenna_Of_Destiny Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 Do a barrel roll! Use the boost to get through!
Author starla33 Posted April 7, 2014 Author Posted April 7, 2014 Calm down, give it until a few days. Let me ask you this, say you met this guy and another guy that day. The other guy texted you a couple times talking about how much he wanted to take you out. Then you have the guy who doesn't seem all that interested. Which would you be thinking about? Aloof works, seeming to not be all that interested has you all worked up. I guessing you've thought about it and him most of the day. So when he contacts you Monday or Tuesday you will be over the moon. I'm not or ever have I been a "player" conscience issues, but I know how. Watch this guy and be careful. Either he isn't into you, or he'll have you hooked so tight in a few weeks you won't be able to think. In person we talked about Tuesday.... It's not that far off
oz-missy Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 That's the polite way of ignoring the fact I said I was looking forward to seeing him again. How how how? Seriously how did you deduce that from so few words in a text message? Instead of having a total freak out here on LS, how about sending him a text back. Start some dialogue on there and see when this date will eventuate. Plus why do you need to rely on him to organise the date? Why don't you come up with something and ask him if he's free and catch up then? Seriously why do a lot of girls expect the man to do all the chasing? You're an independent and (I am assuming) intelligent woman - take charge of the situation yourself.
Author starla33 Posted April 7, 2014 Author Posted April 7, 2014 How how how? Seriously how did you deduce that from so few words in a text message? Instead of having a total freak out here on LS, how about sending him a text back. Start some dialogue on there and see when this date will eventuate. Plus why do you need to rely on him to organise the date? Why don't you come up with something and ask him if he's free and catch up then? Seriously why do a lot of girls expect the man to do all the chasing? You're an independent and (I am assuming) intelligent woman - take charge of the situation yourself. I have no problem asking a guy on a date. However when we already talked about going out in person and the date I am free. I feel this is his way of blowing me off in a nice way
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