figuringitoutx Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 I'm very close to contacting my ex whether it be by phone or facebook or whatever. I know I shouldn't. I know. We've been NC for almost a year and a half and I don't know. I'm struggling and I'm probably lonely and sad and I don't even know what else. Give me all your reasons why not to contact him. Help a girl out?
David87 Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 It's like telling him that you have no life without his presence.
Itspointless Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 I'm very close to contacting my ex whether it be by phone or facebook or whatever. I know I shouldn't. I know. We've been NC for almost a year and a half and I don't know. I'm struggling and I'm probably lonely and sad and I don't even know what else. Give me all your reasons why not to contact him. Help a girl out? Depends if you want to talk to him because you miss him or that you are just interested in how he is doing. Loneliness is not a good reason to contact him.
STM206 Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 I know you're looking through rose tinted glasses right now, but contacting him wouldn't do you any good - was he the one the left you? 1.) You'll see that he's moved on, possibly with someone else 2.) You'll stroke his ego, because he will know deep down that you're missing him 3.) You'll send the message and possibly not even get a response or a cold "hey how's it going" response and set yourself back again 4.) You don't owe him anything, the fact that you're posting on here asking if you should contact him or not just shows that you're not ready to handle a friendship yet, everyone moves at their own pace. 5.) Let him contact you when/if that day comes and speak with him on YOUR terms!
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