Voldemortt Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 (edited) Hi everyone. I am enjoying life. I feel happy, relaxed and calm. I no longer cry myself to sleep or feel stressed out. Here is what killed my happiness in life: -constant stalking -stalking my family -stalking my friends -abuse (mentally and emotionally. Who knows...maybe physically would've appeared soon) -controlling to the point of keeping me in a cage. He told me once I was "obsessed" with my friends. The fck? He basically wants my attention towards to him ONLY and feels threatened by my friends. Only a psycho would say that. Unfortunately I lost most of them and now i have to work harder to re-establish contact with them again. It's getting there now. -never wants to accept that he's mentally ill -judging me all the time (how much i sleep, how much i love showers ) - no privacy. If i demand privacy, he would accuse me of cheating. I need my space -very slow learner in general and about life. Takes forever to learn lessons. -don't like sex with him because he is abusive. It feels like rape to me (shrug) Turns me off The New Guy -gives me freedom and space. I can look at other guys and he still loves me. I would never touch other guys though -lets me go out with friends. I let him too -an overall better guy for me So anyone else wish to share their depressing experience with an ex? Anyone else feel happier or better off without them? Edited April 7, 2014 by Voldemortt
Js2493 Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 My ex ended it with me 5 weeks ago. She couldn't make me the person she wanted me to be. She looked me in the eyes and said "You'll never be good enough for me." That was after 2 years of being together. Right now it sucks, but I know it'll be worth it in the end. I bet it's nice to be loved by someone for who you are and not what they can make you. Congrats to you though, always nice to see a member of this great community making headway and being happy. It also gives hope to those of us who can't see the light at the end of the tunnel yet.
sooshi Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 Js2493, wow, I'm so sorry you were told such a harsh thing! You don't deserve to be told something like that. Although I know it hurts right now, it sounds like having the relationship end was a blessing in disguise. Glad you're happier, Voldemortt. 2
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