ByMyself01 Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 I haven't updated here since January, but me and my ex had gotten back together for a few months now and I thought we could start off on a clean slate, because I still loved him and he so-called professed his undying love for me and even talked about marriage and a child together which is something I do want out of life. In my mind, I was dumbfound and thought that I could trust him. I thought he was the one that called it off with the mother of his child because she had found someone else but I see I was just a rebound. Now, why I'm so upset is because he refuses to tell me the truth. I ask him was it really over between him and her and it is not I see. I seen a conversation with them two. It started with them talking about their child they have together then her asking him does he still want her and at first he said no because he has me, then the conversation went on with them trying to have a talk about their relationship with a possibility of getting back together. He basically told her that yes he still wants her after pretending he didn't. What I don't like, is why he failed to inform me of this. I find it very deceptive that he comes to my house, lay up with me, and tell me he loves me and tries to make a child with me but the whole time he's wondering if he can get her back. Without him even realizing it, the relationship is already over between him and I because as soon as he goes back home, I'm going to start seeing other people. I refuse to tell him now because I don't feel like arguing with him at this point. I gave him chance after chance behind her and just decided to wait the situation out and just as soon as I thought it would get better, I see this crap. Well now, it is basically over between us without him even realizing it. He wants her and she wants him, it's nothing I can do about that, but I would have liked it better if he would have been honest with me instead of me looking stupid considering marrying him and starting a family with him. I feel so stupid, can anyone tell me what to do for myself in this situation because I am emotionally hurt and I can't talk to him about it because he will just deny it all and get angry that I even approached him about it.
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