sam_1994 Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 I’m 19, she’s 17, and she is my sister’s best friend. They have been friends for years now and she has become a close friend of the whole family. I really like her and I’m pretty sure she likes me back the same way. She comes round once every week or so. But she doesn’t show many signs if licking me when she is actually around our house. The only reason I think she likes me is because she has sent me texts before saying things like; “I wish I could see you “, “want to see you soon” & “you should come keep me warm” but these are the only way she has let me know that she even thinks of me when I’m not there. Since then I have asked her to meet me in private before to go out and watch a movie, she did accept but then dropped out at the last minute, and this has kind of put me off asking her again. The fact that she is my sister’s best friend makes things hard for me to see her in private. I want to make her my girlfriend but I don’t know how to go about it.
Gaeta Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 I don't think you've been friendzoned at all. I think she got shy, maybe she never had a boyfriend before? If she is your sister's friend then why not talk to your sister?
Cunning_Linguist Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 Did you mean licking or liking? She texts you "come keep me warm?". What else do you need? She wants you. Grow some balls and go for it.
Author sam_1994 Posted April 7, 2014 Author Posted April 7, 2014 The problem is now that those texts were about 3 weeks ago, I didn't capitalise on them as I should have done, there aren't that many signs coming my way any more, I'm starting to think that she may have lost interest, I sent her a text saying "I miss you, we should meet up next weekend" she has read it but not replied, I don't want to come off as annoying and bugging her, What should I say, and how long to wait before saying anything at all??
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