BanditK Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 It's been about a month and a half since my ex broke up with me right before I was going to propose. Difficult is an understatement really. She told me she needed space to find out what made her happy so I gave it toher and she continued to text me. One day, we fought and she ended it. Since then, she's texted me a few times and I replied but I never hear back. I finally got frustrated and grilled her a bit over why she had been doing that. She was cold and unforgiving with short answers. My last question was if she simply fell out of love. I haven't heard from her since. I gave some thought to writing her a letter to apologize for my actions. I could have done things better. She was petty at times, a bit of a brat and told me when she wanted a break that "nothing in the world makes me happy." She has some issues. She cited me not untagging a photo of myself with a girl I used to date as a reason she ended it. Long and the short of it. Is the letter a waste of time at this point? Shall I continue to keep up the NC? Thanks
realfriends Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 To me, sounds like she has another guy on the other end already. It happened to me and it sucks. Its not necessarily true but it sure sounds like it. I sent my ex two letters after we broke up and I entirely regret doing so. Its not worth it. Nothing good will come out of it. You can't change someones mind with a note. You can't make someone be with you. Its time to start your recovery process. Its going to be a long road but there is no better day to start than today. Realfriends
maturityassets Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 Stop the contact! Closure at this little time after the break up is merely a rationalization of trying to keep contact and win them back. Its futile. you are just giving yourself anxiety by trying to figure out what went wrong.
Mcnulty Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 Do not send a letter. You asked her if she'd fell out of love with you and got no reply...that's the end, don't put yourself through more pain by contacting her...I made that mistake and sent a letter, turned into a royal mess, mind games, being put on the periphery and second guessing her..let it go, trust me.
Author BanditK Posted April 6, 2014 Author Posted April 6, 2014 Understand completely and thanks fellas. Today was just a tough one to swallow. Weekends normally are.
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