daddy87 Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 So ive been talking to this girl for about a month now and met her a few times, we get on dead well and we both like each other. But the problem is that she's not long came out from a relationship. I decided to tell her that i like her not long ago just to see her reaction and she basically said that she really likes me too but just want to get her ex out of her head as she going through an emotional break down aswell, although she ended the relationship, and she also don't want me to stop talking to other people or meet other people incase in a few months time her feeling might change and just wanna stay friends. She still want us to speak everyday like we have been and just don't see each other until she cleared her mind! I don't know what to do...still speak to her like i have been? Or leave her alone until she's sorted? If i speak to her like normal, will i end up being friends with her instead? Advice Please
Gaeta Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 I am advising you to let her go and to stop contact. Move on. It's been a nice month but it is just that, 1 month. She was honest with you, she spelled it out, listen to her. When she is over her ex and ready to date seriously chances are it won't be with you. As for you, sounds like you are ready to find someone and invest yourself. When you are ready, you don't waste your time waiting on people. 1
saltyfishhead666 Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 So ive been talking to this girl for about a month now and met her a few times, we get on dead well and we both like each other. But the problem is that she's not long came out from a relationship. I decided to tell her that i like her not long ago just to see her reaction and she basically said that she really likes me too but just want to get her ex out of her head as she going through an emotional break down aswell, although she ended the relationship, and she also don't want me to stop talking to other people or meet other people incase in a few months time her feeling might change and just wanna stay friends. She still want us to speak everyday like we have been and just don't see each other until she cleared her mind! I don't know what to do...still speak to her like i have been? Or leave her alone until she's sorted? If i speak to her like normal, will i end up being friends with her instead? Advice Please The girls trying to protect you from being her rebound. Tell her that you understand why she can't be with you but you can't be with her like this. If it's meant to be it'll happen another time but right now she's in no frame of mind for a new relationship. 1
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