manatwork Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 I've been bitten many times on this sometimes I show too much interest (want to see them to much, call and text to much) and other times the girl loses interest because i dont show enough whats a good way to ask a girl how she lkes to be contacted and how often? is that something you can ask?
d0nnivain Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 Are you consistently showing this women the same amount of interest or are there varying degrees & you can objectively admit that you showered one with attention but were stand-offish with the other? If you varied your interest level, find a middle ground that is true to who you are & how much contact you want, then stick to your guns.
Author manatwork Posted April 7, 2014 Author Posted April 7, 2014 its hard to find that middle ground
deathandtaxes Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 It's just an organic thing, and changes from person to person. But I'll tell you this - when it clicks, it clicks. And there won't be a thing as too much. You two will converge on the appropriate amount of interest. 2
bluegreen Posted April 10, 2014 Posted April 10, 2014 It's just an organic thing, and changes from person to person. But I'll tell you this - when it clicks, it clicks. And there won't be a thing as too much. You two will converge on the appropriate amount of interest. I really could not have said this better myself when its right it will never be movie kind of perfect but : It will sure enough never be about mind games wondering about things like this killing yourself to make it work and never being able to achieve it. Thumbs up for clever fellow-lady above ... 2
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