HappyxFaith Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 I think its important to keep reminding myself that I’m worthy of interest. That I don’t need to do something special that’s not me to keep him interested, because that’s not my job. If you can trust your worth in this way, you will be attractive in the most important sense of the word: you will attract a boy who is both capable of interest and who wants to spend his one life investing all of his interest in you. A dad said to his daughter: Little One, I want to tell you about the boy who doesn’t need to be kept interested, because he knows you are interesting: Because in the end, Little One, the only thing you should have to do to “keep him interested” is to be you. [This is really helping me regain my broken confidence and esteem, and trusting that it wasn't because I didn't do enough, or wasn't interesting enough for him to love me. I am grateful to have met my ex (ooo first time I called him that) because he showed me what I could be when I was stuck. And ultimately that was why I loved him so much, because I always had my sense of self and I could grow as just me. And I will.] [i will always remember to be the best me I can be, and to keep pushing myself, so one day, someone else will take notice of the me that's been shining. And find that one man who finds me eternally interesting. (with work and effort of course!)] Remember your worth, your value, and your self-respect. Don't reach for the phone and don't go back to someone that didn't appreciate that. Because everyone is worthy of interest. 6
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