Tressugar Posted April 12, 2014 Posted April 12, 2014 Oh well...my husband, the actor from Star Trek, Pitbull and the list goes on. 1
Daisy-oliviaWentcher Posted April 12, 2014 Posted April 12, 2014 I've had that feeling too like " hey you & me would be perfect if only you'd see the bloody light of day!... I'm right under your freaking nose" but sometimes the people you wouldn't normally give a chance to are people who are better suited. I was single for 11 years ( 11 yes) there was this guy that was hard core pursuing me and i was afraid, i had really cultivated an independent lifestyle I mean I thought I had to because I thought the liklihood of ever meeting a man who liked me and chose me was never likely to happen so I stopped praying, holding out, dreaming, wishing .... and then this guy who had only been single for two years ( which I thought was nothing ) pursued me. I thought nah he wouldnt understand what it's like to be single for 11 years and the pain of it, he couldn't relate,he couldn't understand ..and two years is very recent, he's probably still thinking about her. And everytime I kept pushing him away he kept pursuing me. Everytime i kept making an excuse, he kept being patient. I kept wondering " what would a man want with a woman whose been single since 20? It's the most unattractive thing because you know through that experience alone your unwanted and undesirable. But he wanted and desired me! Weird I know. The thing is, give a chance to the people who you normally wouldn't. People aren't compatible because they look it but because they spent time getting to know each other. And forget about those woman who rejected you for shallow reasons, they aren't aware of what opportunity they missed out on & what could have been. 1
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