miamiguy85 Posted January 31, 2005 Posted January 31, 2005 hello to all, as you see i'm new and I need some opinions on my situation, here it goes... Well I've been with my gf for about 3 years and we have problems its mostly cuz of her attitude, and some times she acts weird (i suspected infidelity, even though she said she will never do that) but other than that things are ok. The way i met her was online 3 and half years ago, b4 i started to be interested in her, there was another girl(let call her sabrina) that i REALLY REALLY like a lot but the opportunity of meetin up never became reality since things would come up from both sides and it would make our meetings difficult. About 3 years ago sabrina stopped talkin to me cuz she told me she really liked me also and she didnt want to interfere with my relationship with my gf. So eversince then i didnt talk to her but I would think about her a lot and I wondered how would of things been with her instead of my gf. Ok,here goes the actual situation.... About 3 weeks ago the semister started and my teacher told us he would email us the syllabus, but i never received it. So he told me to ask a classmate (any that had received it) to email to me cuz he wasnt going to anymore. So that day there was only 1 girl left in the class since I stayed after class to talk to my professor,so I went ahead and I introduced myself and asked her if she could please email me the syllabus. On sunday when I checked my email i got her email and it looked familar, and guess what?! ITS SABRINA! so then on monday i talked to her and i told her about and she told me she remembered me and asked me how i was doing and things like that. Eversince then I've felt soooo excited to go to class cuz the feelings for her are i guess coming back(i'm not even sure myself)but I have a gut feeling she has a bf. Eversince then (about a week ago) we have not talked in class and today i was lookin forward to talk to her but she didnt go to class. So my question is...What should I do? Should I get to know her again and i like her then try something out with her? or should I just stay with my current GF? Thank you for takin your time to read this, and any help will be appreciated
Pocky Posted February 1, 2005 Posted February 1, 2005 Why would you stay with your current girlfriend? Regardless of what happens with "Sabrina" you don't really care deeply for your girlfriend so why are you with her? Why are you staying in a relationship that's just "okay"? If you're considering dropping your girlfriend for a chance with a girl you knew three years ago, you should just end the relationship right now..
Lil Honey Posted February 1, 2005 Posted February 1, 2005 I agree with Pocky. You don't seem to care about your current GF, if you can so easily toss her aside. So, toss her now, so you don't hurt her more later. It isn't clear to me either WHY you have your current GF. You've been with her for THREE YEARS and this is how you feel about her? And you say it's HER attitude that presents problems? Let her go so she can get on with her life. Let her go even if you don't contact Sabrina again.
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