Mays Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 I met my boyfriend 1.5 years ago, and we really clicked on a friendly level. He is my go to guy, someone who I can tell ANYTHING to. I told him everything and he shared really personal stories and feelings with me too. Before we met, he was in love with this girl for two years. They stopped talking by the time I met him, but he was not over her. He shared stories about her with me and he remembered the little things she did to him. From what I know, she did not reciprocate those feelings and she rejected him. It took him a long time to get over her. We hung out a lot and we were like best friends. He is not really outgoing, so he does not really have any other girl friends. I am the closest girl friend he had. I guess he started to develop feelings for me because of the connection we had. To be honest, I really don't think he is that attracted to me. Afterwards, we decided to take it to the next level and became a couple. He is a good boyfriend overall, and he does care about my feelings a lot. But sometimes, I wonder if he asked me out because I am the only girl who liked him back that way. I am his first girlfriend, so I really wonder if he will leave me if another prettier girl wanted him in the future. I wonder what will happen if the girl he really liked wanted him back. We actually discussed that, and he told me that he will probably think about it, but he won't leave me. I don't know. I am really insecure about this relationship. I feel like we are together because he just feel wanted when he is with me. Should I move on?
saltyfishhead666 Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 If it wasn't you who made him feel wanted it would have been another girl. That has literally no effect on you. I think that he started dating you because he liked you company and naturally it became more. You aren't her replacement you and you. Try not to feel so insecure about this. He's with you not her and you treat him right!
Noproblem Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 Hey, it's always a gamble when you are in a relationship Whether your were his first pick and he tried for 2 years to get you or whether you were the one who confessed her love.. Men or women can choose another person regardless of how the relationship started. This has to do with what kind of person you are dealing with. Relationships can last forever, or can last for only a month or two. So try to enjoy this relationship while you can, if you felt he really doesn't love you like you love him. You can always leave him.... Time will tell you the truth, and it's up to you decide what to do then.
Author Mays Posted April 7, 2014 Author Posted April 7, 2014 Hey, it's always a gamble when you are in a relationship Whether your were his first pick and he tried for 2 years to get you or whether you were the one who confessed her love.. Men or women can choose another person regardless of how the relationship started. This has to do with what kind of person you are dealing with. Relationships can last forever, or can last for only a month or two. So try to enjoy this relationship while you can, if you felt he really doesn't love you like you love him. You can always leave him.... Time will tell you the truth, and it's up to you decide what to do then. Up to now, he is a really good boyfriend. Quite sweet and all. However, there are just little things he does which makes me doubt him. Although he assures me, something just doesn't feel right. I hate that feeling.
mortensorchid Posted April 7, 2014 Posted April 7, 2014 Out of curiosity, how old are the both of you? And what is your history before he came into the picture?
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