L3stat Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 Long story short my girlfriend of 3.5yrs keeps talking to other men... i caught her having text sex with a friend and just a few months ago she almost left me for another guy but i somehow manage to get her to stop talking to him and be with me. As far as i know she never physically cheated it has always been long nites on the phone and all day texting. We live together so when she starts these relationships i notice the change in the way she interacts with me, short tempered, no affection, no sex, and i am constantly getting compared to them how they are so much better than me. Even right now at this moment at 2am i can hear her talking to one of them and laughing like a school girl in our bedroom while i am force to sleep on the couch. I have confronted her about this and she always tells me i have nothing to worry about she is just going through a phase, and she has no intentions of leaving me and she loves me:mad:. Then she will lead me on to idk get me to stop being suspicious and as soon as i do its back to being ignored. I hate her for what she is doing to me and i hate myself for letting her do it. She knows that i love her more than anything and she can get away with murder but idk what to do besides just break it off and still be force to live with her while she still do what she has been doing.. i have no where to go...
somecamel Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 Long story short my girlfriend of 3.5yrs keeps talking to other men... i caught her having text sex with a friend and just a few months ago she almost left me for another guy but i somehow manage to get her to stop talking to him and be with me. As far as i know she never physically cheated it has always been long nites on the phone and all day texting. We live together so when she starts these relationships i notice the change in the way she interacts with me, short tempered, no affection, no sex, and i am constantly getting compared to them how they are so much better than me. Even right now at this moment at 2am i can hear her talking to one of them and laughing like a school girl in our bedroom while i am force to sleep on the couch. I have confronted her about this and she always tells me i have nothing to worry about she is just going through a phase, and she has no intentions of leaving me and she loves me:mad:. Then she will lead me on to idk get me to stop being suspicious and as soon as i do its back to being ignored. I hate her for what she is doing to me and i hate myself for letting her do it. She knows that i love her more than anything and she can get away with murder but idk what to do besides just break it off and still be force to live with her while she still do what she has been doing.. i have no where to go... Dude, where's your self respect? She is having numerous emotional affairs with other men and you're letting her do it. You always have a choice in life and personally I'd get the hell out. You say you have no where else to go? any friends/family you can go and spend some time with to get your head straight?
Lifegoezon Posted April 6, 2014 Posted April 6, 2014 This will only end one way. No such thing as a phase of pursuing others and then going back to your steady RS. Unless there's something wrong here that together you can fix, she has already left you and she won't be back. No need to hang this out. Call her on her behavior if you think there's a chance you can be happy together but don't put up with this any longer. If it's over there's no avoiding the hurt so you may as well get on with it and retain some dignity. One of you has to leave.
Author L3stat Posted April 11, 2014 Author Posted April 11, 2014 Everything i read is what i know i should do, but whenever i say i am leaving she tells me that she has no intention of leaving me or doing anything physical with the guys she talks to. One of the guys she talks to says that he loves her and she said she loves him too and he was sending her engagement ring pics and i know she was giving her 2cents on what kind she likes.. I don't have anywhere to go, where i live at my job is here and my school is here. She says she just wants to have fun and come back to me i am allowed to talk to other women but just not sleep with them.. I am so broken hearted because its almost midnight and i know what she is going to be doing right in our bedroom from 12-5 while i sleep on the couch..
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