hugznkisses21 Posted January 31, 2005 Posted January 31, 2005 Ok my friend of 9 yrs just emailed me out of the blue...i havent spoke to her for a while...we had a bit of a falling out and she says she is engaged to a guy whom she has met 1.5 months ago... Anyone else think thats crazy besides me. She doesnt even know him...plus he met her in the city here and he goes to school in Austrailia.... I dont know what to say to her.....do i say oh congrats im happy for you....or do i try to talk to her like dude get to know him first dont u thnk its a little fast....
Teag Posted January 31, 2005 Posted January 31, 2005 thats alittle soon but all you can do is wish her good luck. My cousin is doind that same thing, but she was married for 2 years & they were together for 6(her hus) they have a 4 year old & a 1 year old. She met this guy at her work & she left her husband in August or september(can't remember exactly) to be with this other guy, filed for divorse, got it finalized at the Dec. 13th, got engaged to this other guy right before christmas & is now pregnant with the new guy. All this in 4-5 months. wow, I don't agree with it but she's my cousin (in your case your friend) & all I can do is be there for her if she needs me.
tiki Posted January 31, 2005 Posted January 31, 2005 Congratulate her and see what comes of it. Don't be too hard on her.
Author hugznkisses21 Posted January 31, 2005 Author Posted January 31, 2005 I said for her to fill me i on details...that I was a bit confuessed since she just met him but i was happy for her II asked if she was joking cause one night a while back when we were drunk she was joking on how she was engaged with some guy she just met but it was a fun funny thing..... She had a nasty break up and was very upset and i think the next good thing that came her way she latched on to and it thinking HA i can never be alone and hurt again now and go through that again
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