Kryeger Posted April 5, 2014 Posted April 5, 2014 I'm 16 and second year in highschool and I've suddenly started to like(not sure) a girl(she's 17 almost). I can't think of anything else for hours and it's kinda weird. Now, the bad part about it is that the whole 1st year and the first half of the 2nd I've been the biggest jerk a highschool pervert can be. Jerk as in ass spanking, boob touching, pervert jokes, swearing etc you get the idea (she got a very nice body but that's not why I like her). Aside from this I've got a very good sense of humor and the girl would often laugh a lot from my jokes and even though she hated me for being a jerk we would exchange a wink now and then. Now that I realised I like her, I've changed all the way to a nice guy. She noticed pretty quickly (it was obvious as hell) and was pretty delighted about it. So the second day after I've started to be a good guy, I've somehow got to talk with her for a hour or so (we were waiting for someone else at the exit of the highschool) and 'cause there was nothing else to do we talked about the girls and boys in our grade. She reviewed every one and said about me that I'm not looking bad at all my only problem was being a jerk and that now I'm actually attractive for a girl. That felt good so I managed to tell her that I like her by the end of the day. The answer was "I know. I figured it out already." The next week we didn't talk too much but she started to talk with me about the boys she likes and I would just sit there, delighted she trusts me but it's kinda awkard to talk about other boys (-_-). She also likes some other dudes from my grade and she often hugs me and kisses them on the cheek, which is kinda annoying. We hug sometimes and tell jokes and have a good time. Now I've think I've done a ****ing giant mistake. One week after I started to like her, for the whole day she would just hug this one dude and stay near him and laugh a lot and I was kinda mad (I know I had no right to be like this but I was) so I just sat a whole class with my head on the desk and listen to music ignoring the teacher. After the class ended she came to me and asked what's up and I said I was mad. She asked why and I said that it doesn't matter and I asked her to leave me alone. She insisted and I've told her that if she really wants to know then we'll talk after school. So she came to me after school and I told her: "Do I have any chance?". She understood and asked me that if she says no I will carry on being a jerk like before. I answered "No." and she said "Well then...no." That was rough and before I could stop I asked "None?". "Look, I like that you've changed and you're a really nice guy now but I know you will change again later." "I won't." "Then maybe...later." I don't know if I've done well by asking her, now I kinda see I messed up a bit. She's not shy by the way, actually the opposite, always talking and always active. Have I done somkething wrong? I really don't want to be friendzoned and what I fear is that she told me that ****in "maybe" just so that I don't change in the jerk I was before. Help...? Btw, thanks for reading my novel and sorry for any mistake, I'm not a native english speaker.
jothebo41 Posted April 5, 2014 Posted April 5, 2014 Dude, honestly just skimmed through after 'high school' in the title. Yeah hormones may be raging (they will for the next 10 years, trust me); ignore. She isn't interested in taking you seriously. Its high school, even if she did take you seriously? What then? Enter tons more questions. I ignored girls in high school for the most part (I'm 23), for every girl I found who didn't confuse me, 5+ more were pregnant and/or dating guys above 18. Its high school, I know it sucks, but ignore it and her and 99.99% of girls your age, unless you find one where you both make each other happy at a reasonable pace (this is not that case)
Author Kryeger Posted April 5, 2014 Author Posted April 5, 2014 Dude, honestly just skimmed through after 'high school' in the title. Yeah hormones may be raging (they will for the next 10 years, trust me); ignore. She isn't interested in taking you seriously. Its high school, even if she did take you seriously? What then? Enter tons more questions. I ignored girls in high school for the most part (I'm 23), for every girl I found who didn't confuse me, 5+ more were pregnant and/or dating guys above 18. Its high school, I know it sucks, but ignore it and her and 99.99% of girls your age, unless you find one where you both make each other happy at a reasonable pace (this is not that case) I know you're right and if I could think about it like I used to, then I would just do that. However I can't, and I try to find some advice of what to do next. I know it probably won't work, I know that even if it works for a while, we will break up but what do I have nothing to lose anyway so... Any more advice?
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