NiCoLe20 Posted January 31, 2005 Posted January 31, 2005 ok so me and this new guy have been getting to know each other and so far- things have been pretty good. we went out to the movies, out to eat, and sometimes hung around in my room watching a dvd. so... things have been getting pretty hot and heavy b/w us. But, even though i was really tempted to push things a little farther, i didnt (woohoo - a + for me!)...i told him i just want to wait for the special time to do it when we were both comfortable, and knew each other more. i have respect for my body and i feel that the sooner we do things, then there isnt much to look forward to anymore, ya know? so this is what went on... well, we were all touchy feely and rubbing each other down and stuff like that.. and i dont want to get too graphic but he went down my pants and i did the same to him... Now, this guy is really attractive and im physically attracted to him.. nice body, smells good, nice eyes, all that good stuff.... but when i went down there... hmm... how should i say this? lol...i guess you can say i expected him to be a lot bigger! aww...i know this sounds mean but hey- its what i thought! so now im like great what can i do w/ this?!!! he seems like hes the type that will always be on bottom b/c he may feel embarassed about his size... we havent done anything yet so im wondering what i should do... i know they say its not the size of the boat its the motion of the ocean... but i need to feel something ya know what im saying?!!! i mean im gonna hang around till we finally have sex-bc i really like this guy and it can be really good for all i know.. but im just going on my instincts and what i ''felt'' the other night... what would u guys do? ladies-- would u be w/ someone you really like even though they are a little small down there? he's not like 3 inches or anything but its kinda thin hahaha lol... help!!!
tiki Posted January 31, 2005 Posted January 31, 2005 Wait until you see it. The first time is always awkward, he could've had some stage freight. I've been wrong about men before. He may come around?
Teag Posted January 31, 2005 Posted January 31, 2005 Don't worry too much. My ex bf was small but damn was he good in bed. He was the first guy to ever make me.......well you know . So I really wouldn't worry too much. That "saying" is true. I definalty wouldn't break up w/ him for that reason. Give him a chance.
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