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was not homosexual? Like bisexual or pan or just curious whatever...

 

 

I was just wondering. I personally wouldn't but I have seen it happen quite a lot. Like my roommates most were bisexual. But would be dating straight guys. I'm just wondering doesn't it cause too much competition?

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I'm a guy and yes I would date lesbians. :D

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Nickierose19 Established Member

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I'm a guy and yes I would date lesbians. :D

you mean a bisexual woman?

 

 

And would you see the competition since she likes men and women as a problem?

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If I was asked this question when I was in my twenties, I would say "Hell NO!"

 

Now that I'm in my forties and have been around the block a few times, my answer would be "Sure, why not?"

 

If his same sex encounters were something in his past and is now choosing a monogamous relationship with me, I don't see why that would have any bearing on who he is right now.

 

We all have a past and skeletons in our closets and have done things we might be too ashamed or embarrassed to admit to never mind let our SO know about. It just is what it is. Love is love and provided his past sexual encounters were mutual and consensual, I don't see it as a problem.

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you mean a bisexual woman?

 

 

And would you see the competition since she likes men and women as a problem?

 

Why would it be? There's competition when you marry a straight person too. Only difference is it comes from different places.

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was not homosexual? Like bisexual or pan or just curious whatever...

 

 

I was just wondering. I personally wouldn't but I have seen it happen quite a lot. Like my roommates most were bisexual. But would be dating straight guys. I'm just wondering doesn't it cause too much competition?

 

 

I wouldn't. I have absolutely nothing against bisexuals, gay people, pans however I think it's hard enough to date as it is without having to wonder if your boyfriend was bonking his best bloke friend...

 

That's just me though

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was not homosexual? Like bisexual or pan or just curious whatever...

 

 

I was just wondering. I personally wouldn't but I have seen it happen quite a lot. Like my roommates most were bisexual. But would be dating straight guys. I'm just wondering doesn't it cause too much competition?

 

Are you suggesting bisexuals should only date bisexuals? Why? They should be able to date whomever wants to date them. And why does it cause too much competition? Just because they can date either gender doesn't mean they will want to date everyone they see of either gender. Yes, they have more choices, but if you are a great person with a positive outlook and are fun and smart, that shouldn't matter because you will be a viable pick. I have dated/hung out with bisexual women before and they were lovely. My daughter is open minded (though she hates labels and doesn't like to be called bisexual) and she is someone who practices very high morals and values.

If you don't want to date for religious reasons I understand, but if you just are afraid of competition, I find that limiting for you.

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you mean a bisexual woman?

 

 

And would you see the competition since she likes men and women as a problem?

 

I don't see others as competition, she either likes me or she doesn't. :)

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I would not be with a man that likes man on man action. The thought of him having sex with another man or just being turned on by another man would make him lose his entire masculinity in my eyes.

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I would not be with a man that likes man on man action. The thought of him having sex with another man or just being turned on by another man would make him lose his entire masculinity in my eyes.

 

 

I have to agree - I couldn't date someone who once liked willies up his bum given that I don't have one!

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was not homosexual? Like bisexual or pan or just curious whatever...

 

 

I was just wondering. I personally wouldn't but I have seen it happen quite a lot. Like my roommates most were bisexual. But would be dating straight guys. I'm just wondering doesn't it cause too much competition?

 

As a guy, I would not completely dismiss the possibility of dating a woman who had a relationship with another woman. As per your female, bisexual friends dating guys, well, there's nothing strange about that. They claim to be "bi"-sexual, so they could date either way.

 

In the end, I personally do not believe bisexuals exist. They are experimenting and they all have a strong preference and that preference is what reveals whether they are hetero or homosexual. Bisexual is a experimentation phase...

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I would have no issue dating a woman who is bisexual.

 

It would be fun to oggle women together :)

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I think all you may gain from this thread is the majority of men would date a bisexual woman and most of the women wouldn't date a bisexual man.

 

Women aren't turned on by dude on dude like men are by woman on woman and that plays a very large part in that decision I think

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As a guy, I would not completely dismiss the possibility of dating a woman who had a relationship with another woman. As per your female, bisexual friends dating guys, well, there's nothing strange about that. They claim to be "bi"-sexual, so they could date either way.

 

In the end, I personally do not believe bisexuals exist. They are experimenting and they all have a strong preference and that preference is what reveals whether they are hetero or homosexual. Bisexual is a experimentation phase...

yeah no my first roommates were actually dating previously. One was a lesbian the other she'd go back and forth liking girls then liking guys. back and forth. She would say she mainly liked guys but then be into some girl with big boobs. I noticed some homophobia also in some of my roomies they would make fun of transgender or gay men well one would.

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I think all you may gain from this thread is the majority of men would date a bisexual woman and most of the women wouldn't date a bisexual man.

 

Women aren't turned on by dude on dude like men are by woman on woman and that plays a very large part in that decision I think

I think a part of that is that female on female sex is more natural and more socially acceptable than male on male.

 

Women are more fluid in their sexuality than men are.

 

Lastly, everybody believes that women are hot :cool:

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I think all you may gain from this thread is the majority of men would date a bisexual woman and most of the women wouldn't date a bisexual man.

 

Women aren't turned on by dude on dude like men are by woman on woman and that plays a very large part in that decision I think

actually speak for yourself that's like one of my biggest fantasies but a bisexual man is different.

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I think a part of that is that female on female sex is more natural and more socially acceptable than male on male.

 

Women are more fluid in their sexuality than men are.

 

Lastly, everybody believes that women are hot :cool:

No it's not for straight women and probably not for lesbians. Just for bisexual women imo.

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actually speak for yourself that's like one of my biggest fantasies but a bisexual man is different.

 

 

I think some women are turned on by bloke on bloke - the majority aren't though same goes for men you'd have to look very hard to find a guy who wasn't turned on by woman on woman.

 

That is really the deciding factor here. If something in your sexual past turns your current partner off that's you done finished gonzo!

 

If it turns them on - extra brownie points for you lol

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No it's not for straight women and probably not for lesbians. Just for bisexual women imo.

I believe that there are far less 100% straight women then there are 100% straight men.

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I believe that there are far less 100% straight women then there are 100% straight men.

 

 

Agree I kinda disagree. I think a woman has the ability to say another woman is stunning, admire her for what she is without thinking "damn I'd love to roll around with her"

 

Where as men typically don't compliment other men lol

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I believe that there are far less 100% straight women then there are 100% straight men.

 

I wonder why????? :rolleyes:

 

I am convinced that women do not get excited about a guy who has had a homosexual past.

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I would not be with a man that likes man on man action. The thought of him having sex with another man or just being turned on by another man would make him lose his entire masculinity in my eyes.

I think that's more a social stigma. Anyhow it to me irl would be too much of an insecurity because what if they would later need a man you know. But man on man action is to me attractive actually more than man on woman action.

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Agree I kinda disagree. I think a woman has the ability to say another woman is stunning, admire her for what she is without thinking "damn I'd love to roll around with her"

That's just the first step ;)

Where as men typically don't compliment other men lol

Yup.

 

The appearance of other men is a non-issue to me.

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That's just the first step ;)

 

Yup.

 

The appearance of other men is a non-issue to me.

 

LMFAO!!!!! I'll remember that next time I compliment a lady... :laugh:

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Agree I kinda disagree. I think a woman has the ability to say another woman is stunning, admire her for what she is without thinking "damn I'd love to roll around with her"

 

Where as men typically don't compliment other men lol

yeah I can see a girl is more attractive but if she's really hot I'm just going to get jealous. other than that her looks would be insignificant.

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