jenny7l7 Posted April 4, 2014 Posted April 4, 2014 My ex boyfriend and I broke up a month ago the break up was mutual but I was the one who suggested it. We didn't talk for a couple of weeks after the break up but then he contacted me by text and we have been texting back and fourth the past two weeks. He asked me to hang out shortly after we started texting I said I wasn't sure so we didn't then he asked me again yesterday and I said I didn't know if it was a good idea he told me to not over think things and that life is too short. So he came over after work last night and brought dinner for us (which is unusal for him) and we watched two movies together during the first movie we sat on seperate couches then when the second movie started he asked if I would lay on the same couch with him so I did (we cuddled). After the movie we layed there for about 4 hours and talked normally when we were dating he would come over after work we would watch a movie, hook up and go to bed early. It was about 4am and I told him I needed to sleep he didn't want to leave he was even lingering at the door for awhile but we never kissed. We came close at one point but I turned my head, although there was sexual touching outside the clothes, and some sexual talk (memories) we didn't hook up. I knew before he came that wouldn't be a good idea, it was a little different for me I can tell my feelings for him aren't exactly the same but I do still like him it's frusterating trying to think what exactly is going through his mind I deffinitley don't want to be a f*ck buddy or something that's not going to happen.
Zahara Posted April 4, 2014 Posted April 4, 2014 (edited) It's a break-up. Why are you still hanging out with him? If you wanted to go back to all the things that you did when you were dating, then you should not have broken up. You are just as confusing as he is. Edited April 4, 2014 by Zahara
Cakess Posted April 4, 2014 Posted April 4, 2014 ^ I agree. I think since you two have already had the meaning, I'd probably sit down with your ex and be clear about your feelings. If you do want to get back together, say that. If you don't, let him know you aren't interested in hooking up, cuddling, or being a FWB. I'd personally suggest not even attempting friendship at this point because it is way to fragile right now, but it's really up to you.
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