Kiamissivo Posted April 4, 2014 Posted April 4, 2014 My girlfriend, (Who is 19) has seemed to always be worried about her breast size. She thinks her breasts are not large enough for me, however I think they are perfectly fine. I reassure her alot that they are perfect, like her, but she keeps thinking otherwise. Both of us love each other very much but I just can't see her in distress over something like this. We have been dating in person for nearly a year now, and I don't want her to feel like she isn't the best just because of her breast size. I need help trying to convince her that she doesn't need to worry over them. I just want to make her feel happy. Can you help me please? If I didn't say, Her cup size is a 34D UK size. If you reply, it helps alot. Thanks!
Gaeta Posted April 4, 2014 Posted April 4, 2014 34D in UK I think is the same in US. She has big breasts already, what does she want? 34FF? I don't think she is worried about what you like, I think she wants to have super jumbo breasts and is looking for you to justify what she wants.
Hello_is_it_me Posted April 4, 2014 Posted April 4, 2014 If it was me I would try to stress that she looks fine the way she is but if that's what will make her happy and she has her heart set on it, then go for it (and I don't even like big breasts).
Author Kiamissivo Posted April 4, 2014 Author Posted April 4, 2014 Thanks for the replies, Everyone. I was wondering why she has been acting like this. I personally think she wants them to be larger to impress me as if her current size isn't enough. I'm fine with whatever she wants and I don't know what she's planning in the future for this. I can justify to her liking because we've been very close and respect each other so that won't be much of a problem. Should I ask her why she wants larger breasts, to see if it is for me or for her? Again, thanks for the replies everyone
Gaeta Posted April 4, 2014 Posted April 4, 2014 Her size is impressive already. I have 36DD (one size above her) and I can't get men to look at me in the face when they freaking talk to me! I have a huge problem finding clothes that will fit me properly. If it's big enough for my breasts then it's too big at the waist and at the shoulders. Shopping is a pain in the.... I am a successful woman, I am smart, independent, I am kind but trying to find a boyfriend that will see beyond my big breasts is difficult. When I do get a boyfriend then they make little comments about other men checking me out, as if I am responsible of that. Oh yeah, your girlfriend wants your attention. She wants your attention and the attention of ALL men around ! and she will get it.
Hello_is_it_me Posted April 4, 2014 Posted April 4, 2014 Her size is impressive already. I have 36DD (one size above her) and I can't get men to look at me in the face when they freaking talk to me! I have a huge problem finding clothes that will fit me properly. If it's big enough for my breasts then it's too big at the waist and at the shoulders. Shopping is a pain in the.... I am a successful woman, I am smart, independent, I am kind but trying to find a boyfriend that will see beyond my big breasts is difficult. When I do get a boyfriend then they make little comments about other men checking me out, as if I am responsible of that. Oh yeah, your girlfriend wants your attention. She wants your attention and the attention of ALL men around ! and she will get it. Stop flaunting those jugs, Gaeta! And OP, are you sure your gf isn't planning to compete in this sport? Woman Smashing Things With Breasts - Jokeroo 1
saltyfishhead666 Posted April 4, 2014 Posted April 4, 2014 My girlfriend, (Who is 19) has seemed to always be worried about her breast size. She thinks her breasts are not large enough for me, however I think they are perfectly fine. I reassure her alot that they are perfect, like her, but she keeps thinking otherwise. Both of us love each other very much but I just can't see her in distress over something like this. We have been dating in person for nearly a year now, and I don't want her to feel like she isn't the best just because of her breast size. I need help trying to convince her that she doesn't need to worry over them. I just want to make her feel happy. Can you help me please? If I didn't say, Her cup size is a 34D UK size. If you reply, it helps alot. Thanks! You should show your girlfriend this and hopefully it may get the message across. I was a 34DD at 18 I am now 26 and they've grown to a 36 HH her boobs are big compared to most women. Boobs bigger than hers are troublesome. They hurt, they are extremely heavy, bras that actually support you are slim to none and if you manage to find one they cost 4 times the cost of average. She may think her chest is small and that you are saying it's fine because you are bias you are her boyfriend but really they are pretty damn big compared to the average woman. Going larger would be a serious serious mistake and one should couldn't undo easily.
saltyfishhead666 Posted April 4, 2014 Posted April 4, 2014 Her size is impressive already. I have 36DD (one size above her) and I can't get men to look at me in the face when they freaking talk to me! I have a huge problem finding clothes that will fit me properly. If it's big enough for my breasts then it's too big at the waist and at the shoulders. Shopping is a pain in the.... I am a successful woman, I am smart, independent, I am kind but trying to find a boyfriend that will see beyond my big breasts is difficult. When I do get a boyfriend then they make little comments about other men checking me out, as if I am responsible of that. Oh yeah, your girlfriend wants your attention. She wants your attention and the attention of ALL men around ! and she will get it. Haha I remember the whole look at the chest not the eyes thing. I have had men spill things on themselves and walk into stuff before Pmsl. Luckily over time I've learnt to dress to downplay them lol
Gaeta Posted April 4, 2014 Posted April 4, 2014 Luckily over time I've learnt to dress to downplay them lol You wear a burlap? lol And you brought another important point, over Ds it's pretty expensive and limited in style. And we're not even getting into the health hazard of having silicone implants! 1
saltyfishhead666 Posted April 4, 2014 Posted April 4, 2014 You wear a burlap? lol And you brought another important point, over Ds it's pretty expensive and limited in style. And we're not even getting into the health hazard of having silicone implants! I have no idea what that is lol!! I swear by sports bras though (after shock) they squish the puppies in and make them nice and secure. No even remotely low cut tops or I look like pam Anderson in a wonder bra Pmsl!! Extreme health hazard be they be naturally or silicone. The Nhs won't help her either. They won't help me and I'm 5ft and 97lbs with these bad boys lmao
Gaeta Posted April 4, 2014 Posted April 4, 2014 I have no idea what that is lol!!lol, it's an expression that means dressing in a potato bag to hide body shapes.
saltyfishhead666 Posted April 4, 2014 Posted April 4, 2014 lol, it's an expression that means dressing in a potato bag to hide body shapes. Hahahaha!! Learn something new everyday!! I am always very covered but my tops aren't 10 sizes too big to disguise them lol
Author Kiamissivo Posted April 5, 2014 Author Posted April 5, 2014 Her size is impressive already. Oh yeah, your girlfriend wants your attention. She wants your attention and the attention of ALL men around ! and she will get it. I don't think she is trying to impress other men, because she's proven alot that she only wants me. But why would she try to impress me about having a larger breast size? I love her already, maybe she thinks doing this will make me love her more. I'm planning to ask her why she wants this, attracting my attention or otherwise. Thanks for all the help so far, by the way! Boobs bigger than hers are troublesome. They hurt, they are extremely heavy, bras that actually support you are slim to none and if you manage to find one they cost 4 times the cost of average. She may think her chest is small and that you are saying it's fine because you are bias you are her boyfriend but really they are pretty damn big compared to the average woman. Going larger would be a serious serious mistake and one should couldn't undo easily. Thanks, I'll tell her about that, I don't know much about these things, of course, because I am the opposite gender. I don't want her to regret anything later in life. I appreciate the feedback! I don't think her chest is small even by my standpoint. I haven't told her, but I like breasts in the C - E size range, so I think they are great for me. Like I said above, I'm thinking of asking her why she wants this.
georgecostanza Posted April 5, 2014 Posted April 5, 2014 Spend more time appreciating her body in bed. Tell her how wonderful it is. Subtly draw her attention to the attractiveness of lesser-chested celebrities. Motorboat her. Anything over D is too big for me :/
thecrucible Posted April 5, 2014 Posted April 5, 2014 Make sure you pay attention to her boobs during foreplay and give them lots of attention. Don't make any comments that'll make her feel bad. I'm a C-cup and I've had several douche guys tell me that my breasts are too small, so I now have a complex about it. Basically you have to be sensitive when it comes to a woman's body. You sound like a lovely guy. I think it's lovely that you obviously care about her and posted this thread.
OhThatGirl Posted April 5, 2014 Posted April 5, 2014 Let me preface this by saying I'm a pretty thin girl and I have tiny boobs. Tiny. Like 34A. Now, that being said. I love them. They are shapely and my nipples fit them perfectly. Do I want bigger tits? Of course. I have gone to a surgical consultation and every so often seriously consider just scheduling the damn surgery already. But.. I buy a new car, take an awesome vacation, blow my money on fun stuff instead. Point being. If she is D cup this is likely just insecurity about a lot of stuff being manifested as insecurity with her breast size. You can't fix that, only she can. You can guess from my preface, but I have zero sympathy if it's truly about size (she's a D cup for crying out loud). I'm kind of abrasive and so if I were in your position I would have to put my foot down. My only response to her would be "your boobs are fine and I'm sick of hearing about it, the only thing better than great tits is a girl that is confident in her great tits, please don't bring this up again because you're ruining it for me" It might be a wake up call to her that you truly are fine with the way she is and need her to be fine with herself as well.
Eivuwan Posted April 5, 2014 Posted April 5, 2014 Honestly, she's insecure about herself for some reason and no amount of comforting from you is going to make her feel secure. Especially since it is obvious that you have already reassured her. This is something she has to fix on her own.
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