Moving Away Letter

[cmack90]

Long story short, I asked out a waitress at a restaurant several weeks back. We have been out on a couple of dates, yet on our last date she informed me that she will be moving back to California after this school year (which is coming to an end in only a few weeks), and will not be returning in the fall. We both attend the same University in Virginia. Now this is really fine with me because we both agree that our views on certain issues are too different to develop a relationship. However, the same night that we had this conversation, she still wanted to be intimate with me. Kissing, hand holding etc. She even fell asleep on my shoulder during the movie. Although we both agree that we shouldn't pursue a relationship together, she obviously demonstrates feelings for me through her actions. I would like to write her a letter that she can hold on to and remember me by. I mean we will realistically never see each other ever again after the next few weeks. I think I am just going to write her a letter thanking her for allowing me to get to know her and spend time with her, telling her that despite our different views on certain issues, that I think she is a special young woman, and telling her that I deeply value the brief time that we have had together.

 

Does this seem appropriate? I think it would be thoughtful, but I don't want to weird her out. Input please.

[David87]

Why write a letter Casanova when you can tell her all this next time you meet with her? It's weird to send that letter.

[Noproblem]

The letter is a nice gesture. Strange, but nice.....

 

Do what your heart tells you and what your brain approves to.

[Gaeta]

Doesn't mean she is developing or wanting to develop feelings because she had sex with you. Women can have no strings attached sex too.

 

I think this letter you are talking about is too much. You just dated for a few weeks, just tell her directly that you enjoyed your time with her and you wish her well.