Lyn77 Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 I texted this guy stating I don't think we should see each other, we are too different. Never really dated, just wanted to end things before they got started. So..... He texts me back right away stating, "Did you just break up with me?" I replied with LOL, thinking it was a joke...he never responded Was he joking? Being sarcastic...give me your thoughts, I don't wanna feel like an idiot!
Toddbt12y1 Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 He more than likely thought you and him were involved, relationship. Either case, he's gone now. So no need to worry.
Zahara Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 I'm not sure why you would respond with a LOL. Whether it was a legitimate question, a joke or sarcasm on his part, it would have been best to err on the side of caution and provide a mature response. It doesn't matter. Move on from this. 1
sooshi Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 I agree with Todd and Zahara. He probably thought you two were in a relationship, but a mature response would have been for the best. But yeah, it doesn't matter now. You can move on from this.
Author Lyn77 Posted April 3, 2014 Author Posted April 3, 2014 I'm not sure why you would respond with a LOL. Whether it was a legitimate question, a joke or sarcasm on his part, it would have been best to err on the side of caution and provide a mature response. It doesn't matter. Move on from this. I replied with lol thinking it was a joke, I guess to lighten up the situation too, leave on good terms
Author Lyn77 Posted April 3, 2014 Author Posted April 3, 2014 haha, I should have replied, "Yes. This romance is over" just to be a smart ass:laugh:
Zahara Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 (edited) haha, I should have replied, "Yes. This romance is over" just to be a smart ass:laugh: If he was a good guy and was respectful of you during your dates, I don't see the need to be a smart ass. Since you weren't sure if he as joking or serious, you could have been mature about it. He could have had a different view of what you two had. Replying with a LOL doesn't give you "leaving on good terms" if he was serious about how he felt about the dates and you. If he was douchey, then the best thing to do is ignore. Edited April 3, 2014 by Zahara
KaliLove Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 Were you joking when you said you didn't want to see each other anymore? Yeah I don't think he was joking either. But it is what it is and it's over now. I would definitely recommend not doing that in the future though..
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