Author Weightlesswings Posted April 3, 2014 Author Posted April 3, 2014 Ok, then my apologies for the last statement. I am happy to hear you are being strong and insightful and you deserve credit for it. I hope you see you deserve better, you aren't the callous one like he is... If I were you, I would call your cell phone carrier and ask for a free number change on account of the fact that you are being stalked, harassed and you could, if need be, say you are also being threatened. If that fails for some reason, then next time your ex contacts you, tell him you will call the police for menacing by stalking, harassment, and telecommunications harassment. (Those are USA laws, but I assume there is some equivalent in Australia?) I'm glad in a way I've been through this experience because I know I'm able to love and care. He on the other hand doesn't know love and doesn't seem to even love or care for himself. If he does contact me again I'll make sure to tell him I'll file a complaint for harrassment. I think before I was just having a moment realising he's actually moved on. I know I deserve better than a jobless, goal-less loser who spends his days smoking pot. Thanks for the advice
Strength in Healing Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 Yes, you deserve way better. You sound like a beautiful person, and capable of happiness. 1
saltyfishhead666 Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 Here in Australia you can't block numbers by the carrier. I have the feature on my iPhone but it doesn't seem to work and I don't have the money/don't want to go through the hassle of getting a new number. You really have no option other than a new number... It may seem like hassle but it'll save your sanity
Author Weightlesswings Posted April 5, 2014 Author Posted April 5, 2014 He keeps sending me abusive messages. In one of them he said he was going to make sure he's going to ruin my perfect happy life which made me snap. I told him I'm taking that as a threat and if he sends one more message I'm going to the police with harassment. He replied calling me every name under the sun and even a slut. I guess being with the same guy for over a year is slutty? But talking to girls while your own girlfriend is in your bed isn't? Last night I even had a dream about him which has made me sad today and completely ruined my mood.
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