123anthony Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 Me and my ex had an awesome relationship, but ultimately she fell out of love for whatever reason. People change. Someone else, the freedom of being single, who knows. The break up went bad because she is terrible at communication, and gave me some hope of a reconciliation. I tried really hard to make it work. It took a little over a month for me to see it was going no where, and I wished her the best and said I hope she finds whatever it is she needs! Fast forward to almost a total of two months no contact, and a total of four months since we broke up. She texted me today with some small talk, and I responded and kept it normal, even funny, keep in mind I harbor no bad feelings towards her. My ex said she would like to meet up, not to catch up, but to say a few things now that 'her head is clear'. Would you guys hear her out, or politely decline.
mtnbiker3000 Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 Me and my ex had an awesome relationship, but ultimately she fell out of love for whatever reason. People change. Someone else, the freedom of being single, who knows. The break up went bad because she is terrible at communication, and gave me some hope of a reconciliation. I tried really hard to make it work. It took a little over a month for me to see it was going no where, and I wished her the best and said I hope she finds whatever it is she needs! Fast forward to almost a total of two months no contact, and a total of four months since we broke up. She texted me today with some small talk, and I responded and kept it normal, even funny, keep in mind I harbor no bad feelings towards her. My ex said she would like to meet up, not to catch up, but to say a few things now that 'her head is clear'. Would you guys hear her out, or politely decline. Only meet up if you want more confusion. More unanswered questions. More Pain. More frustration!!! Your call... 3
David87 Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 Don't go and next time she calls or texts, ignore her. 1
lolablue17 Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 What does it mean "you harbor no bad feelings towards her"? It means you have zero feelings for her? If you see her with another guy, will you not get hurt? If the answer is positive and you are apathetic to her, why not meeting up with her? But if you still have something for her, the meeting is a sacrifice you're doing for her benefit. So why doing this? it will make you more confused. Next time she texts you, tell her you see no point of meeting up because it's over and you dont like to dig in the past.
mtnbiker3000 Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 If the answer is positive and you are apathetic to her, why not meeting up with her?. Wrong. If he has no feelings than why even meet in the first place? The only reason he is even questioning a meeting is because he DOES still have feelings... A meeting will end bad for you... 1
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