Popsicle Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 If you never talked about or brought up the future or commitment with your MM, would he have?
Hope Shimmers Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 If you never talked about or brought up the future or commitment with your MM, would he have? In my case he was the one who brought it up first, and he was the one who kept wanting it while I was more hesitant. Go figure.... 1
Attachment issues Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 My MM gave me his vision a while back, including how long I would work before retiring where we would live, travel, everything before me. Things are moving in a direction but we will see...
QuakerOats Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 My exMM started begging me to marry him right from the start...go figure. Periodically I'd have to remind him that he already was married and he'd need to address that teeny, tiny little factoid if we were to have a future. Even when I cut him off he was still claiming we'd have a future as a married couple. Perhaps he envisions us in the assisted living together playing shuffleboard.
cocorico Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 If you never talked about or brought up the future or commitment with your MM, would he have? He did. But he wisely waited until he was sure I'd be receptive to it. That's why we're together now.
ZMM Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 I never brought it up, because since the very beginning - OW made it clear not to bring it, she had her reasons. Eventually, I did bring it up - but probably not exactly how you are meaning. And it was well received. So far, so good. 1
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