kc_guy Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 Greetings everyone, Not sure if this is the right part of the forum, if not just let me know... So i'll try to keep it short but I doubt it... So the ex and I broke up about 7 years ago, Some of the reasons we broke up were due to outside influences of her friends at the time, she wanted kids which I would not be able to give her due to vasectomy on my part, and my inability to talk about some ED issues I was having at the time, and boughts of jealousy on her part. I will admit, being 31 at the time yes I would look at other females, but I knew that cheating wasnt going to happen but never had thoughts of doing it, but her being 22 at the time still didnt work out in end. Her friends were always the partying type and always out drinking and being mid 20 year olds they were and I guess being older and really past that stage things started going down hill. I was deeply in love with her then but knew that where we were at those stages in life things probably would work out so we ended up ending the relationship. I admit was still doing the occasional stalking and looking her up on facebook every couple of months and stuff just to see how she was doing. After that I got into another relationship that lasted the last 6 years in which I learned alot about myself, yes I loved her but was never in love with her and after a very rocky few years I ended up ending the relationship. So after recently I joined another site and found the first ex on the same sight, we had some emails back and forth, just getting caught up on things. Not alot but enough to know that a lot of those love feelings were coming back. Well that same night I had some wouldn't call them nightmares but some really disconcerting dreams, about her leaving me, even though were not together, i've had other dreams about picking up marriage licenses and other along those same lines. While we haven't really discussed anything remotely feeling wise and stuff, I cant seem to get her out of my head, Im pretty sure i know where im at in my head, im not sure where she is at in hers. So I guess my question is do I find a way to open these discussions or do I just try and find a way to deal with them myself... It seems to be consuming me lately and just not sure on how to continue.. Thanks for any advice in advance...
Mr.Pine Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 Simply based on your message's subject, (without even having to read what you wrote) the answer is don't. Do not. Under any circumstances. Never. Ever. Send an email to an ex. Case closed.
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