Chubbi Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 But I can't really figure out what I've done? If I knew, I'd keep doing it. He's changed. At first, he was like let's just take it one day at a time but now he wants to meet my family. He wants to provide for me. Bf has introduced me to his friends and family. Bf let slip just the other day, he said "just because I love you doesn't mean...." I think we were talking about hot dogs. Maybe he didn't mean it that way? And also one day he said "thanks my love". Then he said he's head over heels for me... But why? I didn't know what to say because he told me he hated the love word?? I kinda pursued him but the dynamics have changed. Now he's like I'm open to do whatever u want as long as we're together. It has been 2 months. There's been no intercourse, not because of me though. I'm so horny for him. He's more like there's no rush with sex. We'll get there. He says he wants to be in a long term relationship and his one gripe with me is that I keep trying to impress him. He wants me to be comfortable with him. Yeah, he's changed. But why? Can men change like that?
Gaeta Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 Don't get carried away, lets see if he can keep that up for a while.
Phantom888 Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 Give it time. If he is a good guy, then it's worth the wait.
TheNewMe2014 Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 Don't get carried away..but do a little Hey, why is that so weird? It's been too months - he's gotten to know you and maybe he realizes he's unhappy with you, loves your company. I do think calling you his 'love' doesn't mean much. But guys don't 'accidentally' say they love you - so, for whatever his definition of love is, he loves you. G might be right, don't get carried away...with his actions. They may die out. But his feelings, I tend to suspect you've nailed.
Author Chubbi Posted April 2, 2014 Author Posted April 2, 2014 It's impossible for me to not get carried away. I have a boyfriend! I've never had one before! I'm so excited. When he comes next I'm going to do the boyfriend dance. I'm going to dance around and say "I got a boyfriend". He's like, "You make me sound so amazing." But I am f**** it up already, no joke. I'm insecure about the relationship and sometimes I don't think he's attractive, like really I'm embarrassed sometimes, and other times I'm jealous because I think he doesn't realize how attractive he is and someone better looking than me is going to steal him away. So I got work out and keep looking good all the time. I want to get comfortable with him because then it's not so up and down and round and round. When you're in love, you can get SICK and CRAZY.
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