kaylan Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 A big pet peeve of mine is when a guy shows interest in a girl, shes not receptive, but then some time later, she decides to come around showing interest. That ish really turns me off. Let me share a couple of situations. 1. In another thread I mentioned to everyone how this girl at the bar basically hit on me while I was out on a date. She said she went to my gym and that we talked on an OLD site...and I didnt even remember her until she legit showed me our convo from her phone. She even asked if the woman I was out with was my girlfriend. Anyways, my date didnt end well, so I did go back to the bar later to get the other girls number. She was telling me how shes trying to get into shape like I am, and that Im really fit...blah blah blah. I tried texting her a couple times. First time she didnt seem talkative. Second time I got no response. But then I see her in the gym and shes eyeing me and trying to get some eye contact going. I dunno whats up about that really. 2. This other chick was in the gym working out with her friend very late one night. They asked me for some advice about one of the machines and we got to talking. They were cool girls. I ended up running into one of them around town and said we should work out sometime, and that she should give me her number. She gave me her number, but this girl didnt respond any to contact either. But then yet again, I get stares and awkward convo Im not even trying to start. Why try to talk to me when you didnt seem interesting in talking after I got your number? That ish is legit annoying.
Cunning_Linguist Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 A big pet peeve of mine is when a guy shows interest in a girl, shes not receptive, but then some time later, she decides to come around showing interest. That ish really turns me off. Let me share a couple of situations. 1. In another thread I mentioned to everyone how this girl at the bar basically hit on me while I was out on a date. She said she went to my gym and that we talked on an OLD site...and I didnt even remember her until she legit showed me our convo from her phone. She even asked if the woman I was out with was my girlfriend. Anyways, my date didnt end well, so I did go back to the bar later to get the other girls number. She was telling me how shes trying to get into shape like I am, and that Im really fit...blah blah blah. I tried texting her a couple times. First time she didnt seem talkative. Second time I got no response. But then I see her in the gym and shes eyeing me and trying to get some eye contact going. I dunno whats up about that really. 2. This other chick was in the gym working out with her friend very late one night. They asked me for some advice about one of the machines and we got to talking. They were cool girls. I ended up running into one of them around town and said we should work out sometime, and that she should give me her number. She gave me her number, but this girl didnt respond any to contact either. But then yet again, I get stares and awkward convo Im not even trying to start. Why try to talk to me when you didnt seem interesting in talking after I got your number? That ish is legit annoying. Don't you know how the game works? She was interested at first but wanted to see if you could play the game. You blew it. Personally, any time I fail I don't blame the other party. Sure sometimes it's her fault, but still externalizing things is not a good mindset to have if you want to win. If you don't get big muscles it's not the dumbbells fault. Step your game up.
KungFuJoe Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 A big pet peeve of mine is when a guy shows interest in a girl, shes not receptive, but then some time later, she decides to come around showing interest. That ish really turns me off. Let me share a couple of situations. 1. In another thread I mentioned to everyone how this girl at the bar basically hit on me while I was out on a date. She said she went to my gym and that we talked on an OLD site...and I didnt even remember her until she legit showed me our convo from her phone. She even asked if the woman I was out with was my girlfriend. Anyways, my date didnt end well, so I did go back to the bar later to get the other girls number. She was telling me how shes trying to get into shape like I am, and that Im really fit...blah blah blah. I tried texting her a couple times. First time she didnt seem talkative. Second time I got no response. But then I see her in the gym and shes eyeing me and trying to get some eye contact going. I dunno whats up about that really. 2. This other chick was in the gym working out with her friend very late one night. They asked me for some advice about one of the machines and we got to talking. They were cool girls. I ended up running into one of them around town and said we should work out sometime, and that she should give me her number. She gave me her number, but this girl didnt respond any to contact either. But then yet again, I get stares and awkward convo Im not even trying to start. Why try to talk to me when you didnt seem interesting in talking after I got your number? That ish is legit annoying. You probably just got your signals crossed. What you thought was romantic interest, they thought was just friendly banter.
Author kaylan Posted April 2, 2014 Author Posted April 2, 2014 (edited) Don't you know how the game works? She was interested at first but wanted to see if you could play the game. You blew it. Personally, any time I fail I don't blame the other party. Sure sometimes it's her fault, but still externalizing things is not a good mindset to have if you want to win. If you don't get big muscles it's not the dumbbells fault. Step your game up. Meh, I didnt blow a dang thing...especially given the fact that THEY are still coming over to me. Lol, lets be real here. Im not the one giving eyes or still sniffing around them.You probably just got your signals crossed. What you thought was romantic interest, they thought was just friendly banter. In the case of the first girl, what woman approaches a guy whos clearly on a date in a bar? Then asks him if the woman hes with is his gf, and then gives him her number later? Thats not friendly banter. Thats clear interest. And in the case of the second girl, I think its fairly obvious to a woman in her 20s why a guy asks for her number. No signals crossed here...especially when I get weird stares after the fact. If it was all just friendly banter then these women would have no issue speaking to me without things seeming odd. Edited April 2, 2014 by kaylan
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