snappytomcat Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 so 10 months after dday,I never thought I would even want to ever look at my husband let alone reconcile with him,and this is a man that would never take off work,when I asked if we could go away for a bit,but now we try to plan a small getaway every month. last month it was both our bdays,and 20th anniversary,and I was kinda dreading it,since its the first after I found out about his affair,but he surprised me,and we went to my favorite place up in the mountains for 3 days,and tomorrow we will be heading out to the dessert for 4 days,we will be riding the motorcycle,we both love to be on the bike,wind blowing in my face,i know its not a question or anything,just want some fresh bs,that want to reconcile with there ws,that it can be done,especially if the ws,is an open book,and very remorseful,like I said 10 months ago,i told him to go be with the ow,and don'tlet the door hit you in the ass on the way out,wow things really can turn around 10
excusememister Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 Snappy...Wow, I needed this... sounds like you wrote your posting specifically for me I am on the fence; been entertaining the thought of R with my WH. He has been doing everything right; open book, counseling, going above and beyond. When it first happened, I couldn't stand the sight of him or the sound of his voice. I literally wished death on him. I was 100% certain that I was through with him. He wanted to R from the second the s#it hit the fan - I thought he was insane for asking me!!!! April 10th will mark my 5 month anniversary since DDay and I have made enormous strides. I see his efforts and really appreciate them. Individual counseling, LS and Marriage Builders is switching my direction towards a possible R. H Have fun on your vacation!! 3
Red123 Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 I'm really happy for you. I needed this too. I'm 4 months from Dday and I am really struggling. It's nice to read that couples make it through and are actually happy again. I'm sure ill survive but I want true happiness. Thanks for sharing your success!
Author snappytomcat Posted April 3, 2014 Author Posted April 3, 2014 thank you red,and excusmememister I hope,and pray that you can be happy soon,thats what everyone wants,like I said I hated the bastard when I first found out,i never thought I could ever be in the same room with him,or look at him without wanting to punch,but reconciliation can happen if that's what you want,and the ws is remorseful,i wish you all well,and thank you for the well wishes 1
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