Phantom888 Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 He used the car and mortgage as tools to control you. This way, you can't afford to leave him. But the truth is, he let the mortgage get behind, which ruins your credit. Again, that makes you more dependent on him because now your credit is so bad you can't buy ANYTHING on your own. You have to sell the house, give the car back to him, and try to pay him back. You need to detach yourself from him because obviously you are giving him too much power over you. This is a very dangerous situation, so please consider carefully. This man can (and will) destroy your life and your future. 3
Leigh 87 Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 Why do you love him exactly? Because occasionally you have a good day? How sad that you think so little of yourself. He doesn't sound like a very lovable man to me. Yes it's more than time for you to leave this relationship. Oh dear. I know. To accept this sort of "relationship", a woman must think very little of yourself. What about returning the favour in the bedroom? How about kissing her? My god. He doesn't kiss her and simply requests "blow jobs?" Very sad. 1
David87 Posted April 3, 2014 Posted April 3, 2014 Dump him now, don't feel sorry about it because it's for your own good. He acts like he owns you, he's arrogant and selfish. Don't worry about your age because you'll find your perfect match eventually. 2
Author SummerRains Posted April 3, 2014 Author Posted April 3, 2014 So I'm planning on breaking up with him this weekend. I'm going to do it when he comes to my house. He has things here that he will have to pick up anyway. I am nervous about it. He is truly a jerk. I have been really paying attention his ways lately. He told me yesterday on the phone "I'm sorry I have been being such a jerk. I want to come tonight or tomorrow night and take you out and try to make it up to you" He didn't come last night. Today I asked if he was coming and he said "I don't know" I said Ok just let me know so I can get ready if we're going out. He said "No I can't come. I told you I would LIKE to take you out.". He always says things to get my hopes up then let's me down somehow. I think he get sense when I have had it and makes empty promises.
Gaeta Posted April 4, 2014 Posted April 4, 2014 Listen, he does not deserve the courtesy of a face to face break up. Box his things, put them outside, tell him it's over and to come and get his stuff. To NOT try to ring your door. It's useless and him insisting will only have him get taken away by the authorities. Why the heck do you want to give him the *respect* of a face to face break up!!
Author SummerRains Posted April 4, 2014 Author Posted April 4, 2014 Listen, he does not deserve the courtesy of a face to face break up. Box his things, put them outside, tell him it's over and to come and get his stuff. To NOT try to ring your door. It's useless and him insisting will only have him get taken away by the authorities. Why the heck do you want to give him the *respect* of a face to face break up!! I wasn't going to out of respect for him. I just thought I would since he has to come here. He will have to come in because he has a few things I can't lift like a huge T.V,weights. I guess I can be gone when he comes.
Treasa Posted April 4, 2014 Posted April 4, 2014 Well, make sure someone is there, a friend of yours, to make sure he doesn't screw you over. 1
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