ConfusedGirl0p0p Posted January 31, 2005 Posted January 31, 2005 This guy I have liked for a couple months have been talking, calling, and emailing a bit. He asked me out on a date, and then we went on another. For the second date he went way out of his way to do special things for me and we got along great! I ended up staying the night(no sex) and things were cool the next day. I tried calling him a few days later, he said he was busy and would call back. It's been almost a week and he hasn't phoned. Is he just not that into me? This usually doesn't happen to me?!
katie79 Posted January 31, 2005 Posted January 31, 2005 he's not that into you. look elsewhere. someone who is into you is bound to come along soon.
jgs78 Posted January 31, 2005 Posted January 31, 2005 OK wait a minute! I want to know, has he been really good about calling and emailing? I mean has he always called when he says he is going to and then calls to make plans or emails to make plans? And then now you stayed at his place and you didn't do anything and you have heard nothing from him yet? If that is the case, then yes, you should move on, no matter how difficult it is, you should just keep on truckin'. If you were to call him, you will probably have to endure him squirming his way out of giving you the truthful response. I think you should just not bother with him. If he ends up calling you and wants to make plans with you again, I would seriously think long and hard about it before you agree to doing that. It is obviously up to you but personally, if a guy took that long to get back to me, it would be a sign that he didn't think I was important enough. That is not a respectful guy. I guess you should try and look at the bright side that it is a good thing that this happened early and not after date 12 or something like that. But don't worry, there is a pot for every lid and the right guy is out there for you. Hang in there!
Screenplay Posted January 31, 2005 Posted January 31, 2005 I agree with both of the above posters, it sounds like things might have just fizzled. As bad as it may seem, it is probably best for you to start thinking about moving on. I wouldn't take it too personal though, and as jgs78 said "there is a pot for every lid".
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